Skuda
Apr 13, 2007, 01:00 AM
So let's start things off with, my grandmother passed away a few days ago.
It's a sad time for us all. She had been in the hospital for a couple of months now. She had been suffering from Polio. I didn't know she even HAD Polio until my mom told me two weeks ago.
So yeah, thanks for not telling me sooner mom.
Anyway, She had been just lying in bed all day, not doing anything. She should have been getting up and exercising, eating her food and getting better.
Sadly, she had given up. Her body began to wither away, then her mind slowly followed. She could barely remember which day of the week it was and was constantly complaining about being bored. She was a real mess, and it was sad to see her like that.
Alas, I realized that her time was nearing. I had been expecting it for some time now. Wednesday morning at 7:00, she slipped away from us.
Tomorrow morning, I'm flying back home to attend the funeral. I was told it was to be a small family affair. That all changed. Just this evening, I got a phone call from my mother.
She told me about what had happened. My aunt went fucking bonkers (not literally.. she's just doing really stupid things).
The small family funeral has now been turned into some sort of demented birthday party. My Aunt being the one spearheading the project. We are now being served CHEESECAKE and FRENCHFRIES, because that is what my grandma had been eating before she passed away. There will be BALLOONS, because my grandma had balloons in her hospital room. They are going to be playing RAIN FOREST MUSIC, because my aunt had been playing that right before my grandma passed away. They are also going to be playing "WHO LET THE DOGS OUT" because my grandma loved her dogs.
Now I'm not one that knows much about funerals, but WHAT THE FUCK!? I am incredibly offended by these ridiculous shenanigans my aunt is planning.
Seriously, this is supposed to be a funeral. Who the hell served cheesecake and frenchfries at a fucking funeral?
Who cares about what she was eating before she passed away. I don't want to hold my sickly grandmother who could barely remember who I was in memory. I want to remember all the happy times I spent with her, all the fun things we did. I don't want to remember what fucking CD somone put on not 12 hours before she passed away.
Seriously... http://www.pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_disapprove.gif
To make matters worse, my cousin (aunt's eldest daughter) is in her first year of veterenary schooling. She has exams this week. Now, my aunt has always been a stickler for getting THE BEST GRADES POSSIBLE!!!!! 98%s wont do. She expected 100%s.
My aunt didn't even tell my cousin that grandma had passed away. She was too worried about her schooling. WHAT THE FUCKING FUCKWADS!!! D:<
My cousin could have rescheduled her exams to 3 weeks after. But since my aunt didn't say anything, it appears as though is is now too late for her to reschedule.
http://www.pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_nono.gif
Well, there's my rant. I am now very pissed off, going into this funeral. I have to get up at 4am so I can catch my flight, so I'm going to try and get some sleep.
I may elaborate more on this later. There's much more to tell. This was merely the icing on the cake.
night PSOW
It's a sad time for us all. She had been in the hospital for a couple of months now. She had been suffering from Polio. I didn't know she even HAD Polio until my mom told me two weeks ago.
So yeah, thanks for not telling me sooner mom.
Anyway, She had been just lying in bed all day, not doing anything. She should have been getting up and exercising, eating her food and getting better.
Sadly, she had given up. Her body began to wither away, then her mind slowly followed. She could barely remember which day of the week it was and was constantly complaining about being bored. She was a real mess, and it was sad to see her like that.
Alas, I realized that her time was nearing. I had been expecting it for some time now. Wednesday morning at 7:00, she slipped away from us.
Tomorrow morning, I'm flying back home to attend the funeral. I was told it was to be a small family affair. That all changed. Just this evening, I got a phone call from my mother.
She told me about what had happened. My aunt went fucking bonkers (not literally.. she's just doing really stupid things).
The small family funeral has now been turned into some sort of demented birthday party. My Aunt being the one spearheading the project. We are now being served CHEESECAKE and FRENCHFRIES, because that is what my grandma had been eating before she passed away. There will be BALLOONS, because my grandma had balloons in her hospital room. They are going to be playing RAIN FOREST MUSIC, because my aunt had been playing that right before my grandma passed away. They are also going to be playing "WHO LET THE DOGS OUT" because my grandma loved her dogs.
Now I'm not one that knows much about funerals, but WHAT THE FUCK!? I am incredibly offended by these ridiculous shenanigans my aunt is planning.
Seriously, this is supposed to be a funeral. Who the hell served cheesecake and frenchfries at a fucking funeral?
Who cares about what she was eating before she passed away. I don't want to hold my sickly grandmother who could barely remember who I was in memory. I want to remember all the happy times I spent with her, all the fun things we did. I don't want to remember what fucking CD somone put on not 12 hours before she passed away.
Seriously... http://www.pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_disapprove.gif
To make matters worse, my cousin (aunt's eldest daughter) is in her first year of veterenary schooling. She has exams this week. Now, my aunt has always been a stickler for getting THE BEST GRADES POSSIBLE!!!!! 98%s wont do. She expected 100%s.
My aunt didn't even tell my cousin that grandma had passed away. She was too worried about her schooling. WHAT THE FUCKING FUCKWADS!!! D:<
My cousin could have rescheduled her exams to 3 weeks after. But since my aunt didn't say anything, it appears as though is is now too late for her to reschedule.
http://www.pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_nono.gif
Well, there's my rant. I am now very pissed off, going into this funeral. I have to get up at 4am so I can catch my flight, so I'm going to try and get some sleep.
I may elaborate more on this later. There's much more to tell. This was merely the icing on the cake.
night PSOW