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MetaZedlen
10-30-2008, 11:51 PM
Well, going back to my last topic (locked because of many comments that I found to be irrelevant or immature to the topic...), she IS going out with someone else, and it IS a relationship...

Damn, I much as I didn't care before, it is coming back and hurting a little...

Why in the hell couldn't she just tell me this? What is so hard about coming forward and saying "hey, I want to see other people"...

I know that it is a lot harder than that, but it is pretty sad on how I figured the whole thing out myself...

Meh, I feel like crap right now... honesty is too hard to come by these days...

The_Gio
10-31-2008, 11:21 AM
well the problem with ALOT of people, including myself in some situations I wont lie and pretend to be perfect myself, is that some people think they know whats best for someone. they dont want to hurt them, and do something worse like lie to their face to protect their feelings...and think their doing better when in reality your hurting the person more by lying to them.

dont feel like crap, im not saying to hate the person, but if they did that to you, your just proving them right to try to protect your feelings, and thats up to you if you want to prove them right. ANYWAY what im saying is just keep your sun out and you'll find someone else, and if you learned from your mistakes with this girl(or guy), youll find someone better. Hope you feel better tho i know its stupid to just say, dont worry, ignore it and be happy, but do what you can till you can be happy naturally