Mystil
Aug 8, 2003, 11:35 AM
This is a non pso related rant.
Makes no damn sense to me. I just recently got out of a LONG friendship with someone who was like a sister to me. She was 14. She was just 12 when we met. She was depressed, worn out by her own life, had no one to teach her how to deal with harsh things. I saw her headingf down that same road I am still getting off of.
After she got well, she was doing better. But then she went through negative changes. Starting thinking 4x more terrible of herself and her life. It got to a point no matter how much of an example I made myself out of, or how much "discussing" of the matter we had, she clearly was going to continue to give up on her life.
This 14 year old..proved the point that age doesnt come with maturity. She knew many things that I know nothing of when I was 14. She had the best outlook of the world than anyone I knew. But this negative aura hanging over her was blocking her from her true potentional. It got worst and worst. Soon she turned all her friends away, and I was left.
My patience grew to zero when she said I knew nothing about her, despite knowing her past, talking to her on the phone or all that personal stuff which is enough to know anyone. Saying that NO ONE cared about her. I had cared alot for her, and took joy telling her that everyso often. It had felt like a heated NEEDLE went through my heart hearing say all these things. And so we got in the biggest fight in history. She hates all things, and her self and strives for nothing in life. She claims that life is worthless to live cause you will die anyhow.
To me that is souless empty talk.
She wishes to have no friends, and wants to be alone. To that affect she wishes to play with life. Ok, I know what it is like to be totally alone. And I mean NO FAMILY/NO FRIENDS/NO NOTHING! THAT is NO kind a life for no one! And no human being deserves to suffer like that. She can play with life like that...she will find out quick how powerful depression combined with loneliness is....
By now she's probably dead from suicide..she always talked about it, and even attempted. It was like her goal. I am ashamed that I failed to be a brother figure to this individual. I tried and tried and tried. For 2 long years. She'd seem to get better then flip out all over again. And once something dissappointes her, she will STAY sad for however how long. I have to sit there talking to her on the phone or on aim for hours and hours to bring some kind of light down her tunnel.
Look...
There is something good about every individual. Whether it is negative to othersshould not matter, they can't force no influence on you. . You ARE born with a purpose. You will at some point see *hints* to this purpose before realizing it. Life is not worthless. No one is worthless. They may feel that way, but they have to look past that negative barrier and look deeper inside themselves and see that there is so much more good things about them than there is bad. Take that knowlegde and use it as a tool to get where you want in life. While laughing in the face of adversity..
I wish she saw what I saw in her..
<font size=-1>[ This Message was edited by: Silhouette on 2003-08-08 09:37 ]</font>
<font size=-1>[ This Message was edited by: Silhouette on 2003-08-08 09:41 ]</font>
Makes no damn sense to me. I just recently got out of a LONG friendship with someone who was like a sister to me. She was 14. She was just 12 when we met. She was depressed, worn out by her own life, had no one to teach her how to deal with harsh things. I saw her headingf down that same road I am still getting off of.
After she got well, she was doing better. But then she went through negative changes. Starting thinking 4x more terrible of herself and her life. It got to a point no matter how much of an example I made myself out of, or how much "discussing" of the matter we had, she clearly was going to continue to give up on her life.
This 14 year old..proved the point that age doesnt come with maturity. She knew many things that I know nothing of when I was 14. She had the best outlook of the world than anyone I knew. But this negative aura hanging over her was blocking her from her true potentional. It got worst and worst. Soon she turned all her friends away, and I was left.
My patience grew to zero when she said I knew nothing about her, despite knowing her past, talking to her on the phone or all that personal stuff which is enough to know anyone. Saying that NO ONE cared about her. I had cared alot for her, and took joy telling her that everyso often. It had felt like a heated NEEDLE went through my heart hearing say all these things. And so we got in the biggest fight in history. She hates all things, and her self and strives for nothing in life. She claims that life is worthless to live cause you will die anyhow.
To me that is souless empty talk.
She wishes to have no friends, and wants to be alone. To that affect she wishes to play with life. Ok, I know what it is like to be totally alone. And I mean NO FAMILY/NO FRIENDS/NO NOTHING! THAT is NO kind a life for no one! And no human being deserves to suffer like that. She can play with life like that...she will find out quick how powerful depression combined with loneliness is....
By now she's probably dead from suicide..she always talked about it, and even attempted. It was like her goal. I am ashamed that I failed to be a brother figure to this individual. I tried and tried and tried. For 2 long years. She'd seem to get better then flip out all over again. And once something dissappointes her, she will STAY sad for however how long. I have to sit there talking to her on the phone or on aim for hours and hours to bring some kind of light down her tunnel.
Look...
There is something good about every individual. Whether it is negative to othersshould not matter, they can't force no influence on you. . You ARE born with a purpose. You will at some point see *hints* to this purpose before realizing it. Life is not worthless. No one is worthless. They may feel that way, but they have to look past that negative barrier and look deeper inside themselves and see that there is so much more good things about them than there is bad. Take that knowlegde and use it as a tool to get where you want in life. While laughing in the face of adversity..
I wish she saw what I saw in her..
<font size=-1>[ This Message was edited by: Silhouette on 2003-08-08 09:37 ]</font>
<font size=-1>[ This Message was edited by: Silhouette on 2003-08-08 09:41 ]</font>