DON'T YOU JUST HATE IT WHEN.....

[Qrrrbrbirbel]

You ask a girl to movies, and never ask out, holds your hand afterwards, and even lets you kiss her goodbye, then the very next day pulls the "I just wanna be friends" card?

FCCCUK WOMEN AND THEIR "CHANGE OF HEARTS"!

[Sayara]

Hey, shit happens. Learn to live with it. Other fish in the sea blah blah...

[Qrrrbrbirbel]

On 2005-10-12 19:48, Tingle wrote:
Hey, shit happens. Learn to live with it. Other fish in the sea blah blah...



Heard it all before, and i have been waiting for more "fish" since march. And i was just getting over the fact that gf not in life.

[Saiffy]

Cause we all know you need a girlfriend to live :3


What Tingle said times a billion >_>

[Cynric]

Cheer up. Just think of what a bitter old person you'll grow up to be. http://pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_yes.gif

[TheOneHero]

Don't go looking for love, let it find you.

Most guys will kiss/hold hands with the first girl they see. Girls know this, and most don't like being treated like that.

Is it possible it was just some test thing that she allowed you to hold her hand and kiss her goodbye, to see if you're like everyone else? http://pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_confused.gif

Course, I'm going off speculation right now on what happened.

I don't know anything about her or you, and I don't know where you kissed her at. Knowing this factors will most likely change my opinions on what's going on and will allow me to help you a little more.

Anyway, I'm off to bed, at least I want to be. http://pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_wacko.gif



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[Zarode]

Hey hey. http://pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_wacko.gif I was the one that did that to my first girl. http://pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_wacko.gif The thoughts go rushin' in espically after that first kiss. Then you really relize that you don't want to be with that person.

That's life. It's tough; just get over it man.

[Allos]

It's even worse when you go out with em for a month, they say they really like you, then they break up with you and the next week they're going out with some other asshole.

[Blue-Hawk]

On 2005-10-12 19:49, Qrrrbrbirbel wrote:


On 2005-10-12 19:48, Tingle wrote:
Hey, shit happens. Learn to live with it. Other fish in the sea blah blah...



Heard it all before, and i have been waiting for more "fish" since march. And i was just getting over the fact that gf not in life.


March? That's all? Pfft. Look at me. I haven't had a GF since 12/26/1999. And I really don't care about that fact anymore. Just more hassle in your life that you don't need.

[EJ]

On 2005-10-13 07:07, Allos wrote:
It's even worse when you go out with em for a month, they say they really like you, then they break up with you and the next week they're going out with some other asshole.


I know how that feels. http://pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_disapprove.gif

[ABDUR101]

Does anyone even give introspective thought anymore?

You went on a date, she got to know you abit better, little tiny things about you, and hey, at the end, maybe she did'nt like some of the tiny little things she noticed about you, whether it be parts of your personality, your physical self, or how you laugh like a retard at something funny or make comments during a movie, and then after the movie, she realised you weren't what she expected and told you to your face.

Atleast she was nice about it and not "Wow, you fucking suck, so much so that I feel bad for not staying at home and just eating icecream instead of wasting air with you through an entire movie."

Summed up of course.

Give some introspective thoughts on maybe why you're getting alot of "lets just be friends" requests.

[Solstis]

On 2005-10-13 08:44, Blue-Hawk wrote:


On 2005-10-12 19:49, Qrrrbrbirbel wrote:


On 2005-10-12 19:48, Tingle wrote:
Hey, shit happens. Learn to live with it. Other fish in the sea blah blah...



Heard it all before, and i have been waiting for more "fish" since march. And i was just getting over the fact that gf not in life.


March? That's all? Pfft. Look at me. I haven't had a GF since 12/26/1999. And I really don't care about that fact anymore. Just more hassle in your life that you don't need.



Hey, way to be jaded. Yeah, sure, not necessary, but can be worth it.

[rena-ko]

yeah, get over it. its not that you treat her to the movies and she has to pay you back.

a relationship is made of two and both need to accept it. if she doesnt see you as a fitting boyfriend, then thats her legitimate decision to say so.

really, be happy she didnt use you as a wallet for a couple of months of nothing more than holding hands.

[Neith]

Don't worry about it too much. Like people before me have said, it's better that she told you that, rather than using you for months. 1-way relationships are never a good thing for the person that isn't recieving love, so be glad you weren't sucked into one.

And heh, regarding not having a girlfriend, I didn't have one at all, until now. I'm 19, and only just found someone. Being alone for that long gave me a good view of what it was like to live alone. I didn't mind at first, but after a while became really lonely.

So yeah, there are people all over the world who've been through the same as you. No sense dwelling on it if it wasn't gonna work well in the first place..

Edit: And yeah, I'm not exactly old, but I'd never even had a date, nevermind a girlfriend http://pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_disapprove.gif


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[ABDUR101]

On 2005-10-14 05:52, UrikoBB3 wrote:
Edit: And yeah, I'm not exactly old, but I'd never even had a date, nevermind a girlfriend http://pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_disapprove.gif


22 and going strong....kinda!

ineedaboyfriend

[digigram]

hehe. 25 and married strong.. I need a life.

[Solstis]

On 2005-10-14 10:59, ABDUR101 wrote:


On 2005-10-14 05:52, UrikoBB3 wrote:
Edit: And yeah, I'm not exactly old, but I'd never even had a date, nevermind a girlfriend http://pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_disapprove.gif


22 and going strong....kinda!

ineedaboyfriend



I tooold you to cruise the campuses! http://pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_mad.gif

Nothing better than an immature college boy like me to annoy the shit out of you spice things up.

Eh, yeah, things like that happen all the time. I'm really more worried about the infamous: "Break-up after 3+ years."


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[navci]

On 2005-10-12 19:53, Saiffy wrote:
Cause we all know you need a girlfriend to live :3


XD.
I LOLed to that.
What is with this "I must be in a relationship, if not I have no reason to live" trend? Many expect relationship to make your life happier, fuller and fix all your problems. THINK AGAIN. If you can't be happy alone, chances are, you won't be happy in a relationship either. Love yourself before you can love others.

Also. Since when is a date and a kiss goodnight is a "promise" that set everything in stone? Whatever happened to go on a date and check out if she liked you, or you liked her? Going on a date means nothing except to check things out and see where it takes you. Chill out.

[ABDUR101]

On 2005-10-14 11:49, navinator wrote:
What is with this "I must be in a relationship, if not I have no reason to live" trend? Many expect relationship to make your life happier, fuller and fix all your problems. THINK AGAIN. If you can't be happy alone, chances are, you won't be happy in a relationship either. Love yourself before you can love others.

Exactly. Granted though, that it's not always about needing a reason to live, it's just company and someone that will "be there". Relationships can be based on many things, "consistency" being one of them.

However, everyone needs to remember, that if you have enough problems on your own, throwing another person into the mix can multiply any problems you're having(not to mention bring along new ones). You have to be able to cope with things to be in a relationship, give and take(Ho-ho! Where's scrub!?) from both.

I have to say though, that being alone certainly isn't always a bad thing. Granted there are times when you'd like there to be another person, feeling that inkling every so often is a problem when it comes to be in a relationship that is fulltime. But thats another can of worms and I don't feel like getting into it. =]



Also. Since when is a date and a kiss goodnight is a "promise" that set everything in stone? Whatever happened to go on a date and check out if she liked you, or you liked her? Going on a date means nothing except to check things out and see where it takes you. Chill out.

Well, check the maturity of those involved. Some people understand the concept of "testing the waters", others don't. =]

*edit*
I hate you navi.


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[Qrrrbrbirbel]

@Everyone

I <3 all of you