My Sister...

[WashuSaotome]

The ignorant, ghetto wannabe bitch.

She's 13. That's no excuse. She thinks she can put her hands on everyone else except for the girls who want to kick her ass down the street.

She is obsessed with the gangster lifestyle. I mean, to each their own, but don't go around strutting that stuff in my face like you ARE one. I don't care, learn how to say four, take a bath, and get out of my face with your random gang signs.

She has no respect for me or anyone. She thinks she can hit my little sister, go outside anytime she feels, and hang around all of those "gangsta" guys without getting in trouble. She tried running away from home, she was in a physical fight with my grandmother and mom, and she has a nasty little mouth.

She likes to talk to the random girls around the neighborhood, then act like she's all big and bad. She usually ends up getting into fights, but doesn't even want to defend herself. She's all talk and no play, like a big baby. But when it comes to fighting family, she'll call me a man and try to bite my face off.

She's money hungry and loves to start trouble between my dad and I. (She'd tell him things like, "Shara doesn't love you!" or "Shara doesn't like talking to you, she only wants money!") But you know what? SHE'S the money hungry one. She's always begging for money. She's a freakin' hustler. But now it's to the point where my dad refuses to give me money because I don't CALL HIM AS OFTEN AS SHE DOES. She's a lying son of a bitch.

I try to ignore her. But when she goes into my room to wear MY STUFF, that totally crosses the line. I don't go in her room and put on her clothes or anything for that matter! If I wanted to, I'd at least get rid of that horrible underarm stink before I'd put on someone else's clothes! MANY of my favorite shirts, pants, and socks were ruined because she didn't want to take a bath.

Money and books go missing. She even stole my mouthwash and deodorant. I had FLOATING BITS OF FOOD in my mouthwash and BROWN STUFF on my deodorant... HOW SICK IS THAT!? No respect. But yet she points fingers at me and others for her behavior.

Then she has the nerve to act like *I* bother her. I don't bother her because I hate her. Why would I bother hanging around someone I hate?

I mean, I'm serious here. I have never once said "I love you" to her because she doesn't deserve an ounce of respect. I'm tired of playing the nice girl. Sometimes I just want to hit her and choke her so bad and hope she dies. (There have been instances where that has happened.)



<font size=-1>[ This Message was edited by: WashuSaotome on 2005-11-08 17:45 ]</font>

[ABDUR101]

Communication is the best thing. I think you could call your dad and tell him everything you said here, get it off your chest and paint him a broader picture than the one she is giving.

Point out to whoever you live with that you don't want her using your things or wearing your clothes, as you don't make use of anything of hers.

And from what it sounds like, if you did knock the hell out of her once, she'd leave you alone. You'd be surprised by how much a minor altercation can put people off from further abuse and misconduct.

"Is Wayne Brady gonna have to choke a bitch?"

[WashuSaotome]

My dad doesn't make the situation any better. He boasts about the way he makes his money (won't mention that here) and ENCOURAGES her behavior. Hell, he even tells her to say mean stuff to my mom and leave dirty messages on her phone.

It's mad.

I talked to him about it. He wants to wine and point fingers, too. I can't handle it. He's just totally counterproductive.

[InfinityXXX]

PREACH IT SISTA!

I dunno, but sibling now a days are just plain disrespectful, they don't give a damn. I dunno if its because of the tv or the parents but its out of hand.

With all due respect Washu...your sister need a good old homestyle ass whoopin'. I can't stand these gangstas that aren't in a gang, and only do it for a fad. Stuff like that just irks me.(goes off to make topic on my sibling)


Edit:Lol, at "ignorant ghetto bitch".


<font size=-1>[ This Message was edited by: InfinityXXX on 2005-11-08 18:08 ]</font>

[KodiaX987]

Put a lock on your bedroom door, don't make doubles of the key, password your computer BIOS, login and screen saver, hide the power bar that powers most of your room's electricals in an inconspicuous location, figure out how to make your own food, lock your desk's drawers if possible, check your bank account, change your PIN and shut yourself in.

You don't have to put up with that shit. No one should go in your room, and you shouldn't be involved in family fights like that. If the rest of your family screws each other up with the gangsta lifestyle, their own damned fault. You'll be in your room, calmly doing your homework, and giggling.

[ABDUR101]

On 2005-11-08 20:31, KodiaX987 wrote:
You don't have to put up with that shit. No one should go in your room, and you shouldn't be involved in family fights like that. If the rest of your family screws each other up with the gangsta lifestyle, their own damned fault. You'll be in your room, calmly doing your homework, and giggling mastu..writing stories.


Yeah!

But yeah, if your dads part of the problem, no use even talking to him about it. Really, I dunno your situation, but if your entire family is like that, you have my sympathy. You just have to find a niche and deal with how things pan out, but definitely don't let your sister walk over you. Put her in her place, even if her place is at the ass-kicking end of your foot.

[navci]

Your sister sounds like she should go hook up with Infinity's brother. Seems like they will get along just fine. >.>

Hopefully kids will eventually grow out of things. But at this rate I am almost feeling that it is hopeless. http://pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_eek.gif

[Orange_Coconut]

I'm sorry to hear that she's causing so much trouble, the worst part is it sounds like nobody cares enough to put a stop to it.

I think that the other people who posted on this already had a point, you need to take charge of your privacy and belongings. If your dad refuses to give you money than maybe it's time to go for a job search (Not saying that you have to, but it would be pro-active and would show that you don't need his money).

That's just an idea though, I don't know if you have a lot of after school activities, that might make having a job a little harder. Or if your school gives out a lot of homework, especially this time of year since it's almost December. Or you might already have a job, but I think that if your sister doesn't respect your privacy that you should basically create your own rules for your room.

I actually think that the lock on the door is a good idea and you might want to find something or somewhere to keep your possessions safely sealed from the her grasp.

Another thing you could do is make the things she borrows from you as disgusting as she leaves them after she uses them. While of course having a spare one stashed away (deodorant and whatever else you can do that with). Or just buy her one of her own and keep one to yourself, but she doesn't really deserve any gifts (in my opinion).

But yeah, I think you need to lay down your fist and and keep it clenched. You need to show her what life is like if she wants to act like a gangsta. She sounds like she's trying to be a threat to people around her, so treat her like she is. Avoid her, avoid giving things to her and avoid her getting near any of your things.



<font size=-1>[ This Message was edited by: Orange_Coconut on 2005-11-09 20:30 ]</font>

[digigram]

washu, 50$ will take care of that problem, just call me at xxx-xxx-xxxx. lol

[rena-ko]

laugh at your father calling him a sad excuse of a grown up. slap your sister around for stealing your clothes. lock your room.

really, some people only understand one language - youre not turning into the likes of them if you use their language towards them as long as you keep yourself towards anyone else.

anyway, good luck with that. alliancing with your mom might be good (however i dont know of your family situation).