Stop it.

[FOAtHeart]

Just because I am resilient and get over loss quickly doesn't mean I just compartmentalize everything and be passive aggressive or whatever!

So I got over being dumped after a few days; stop acting like it's all an act. I am truly, truly over it!

I don't lie. I don't act! I got over my dog's death. I don't know why you treat me with kid gloves when you talk about it. I'm not going to burst into tears if you just mention his name.
Stop telling me that I don't know what I feel.
Stop telling me that I am lying. I'm not.



Yes, this rant is highly specific. >_>

[Skorpius]

I think I know how it is. Usually, a lot of things don't affect me, so people think I'm just insensitive.

[Maridia]

Some people just move on quicker than others. It's because you're young, FO. Everyone will try to coddle you and treat you like you don't know things because you're not experienced enough. I STILL get that from my mother. Some people seem to think that we don't know anything about ourselves or our feelings sometimes. ;P

Just try to deal with it, it probably won't get any better. At least YOU know how you feel, which I guess is the most important thing.

[HAYABUSA-FMW-]

Oh yeah. Sympathizing with another means knowing how they feel, or as best they can, in that particular situation.

But there is a line where how they felt about it could have been drastically different than the person they're sympathizing with felt about it.

Its okay to comfort, but don't forget to understand the person you're comforting!

But I guess more comfort(even if unneccesary) isn't as bad as getting none at all.

[Tkinc]

I feel pain and suffering everyday- and I become stronger with it- Mentally and I do my best to help other with problems they have when my problems may not have been that bad. I help people not to get anything out of it. I smile and be nice to everyone, but am treated like shit. Do I care? Yes, I do. But I know, that it isn't about myself only. I must help everyone get the same level of spiritual awareness as I have- and make THEM happy in disregard for my own... Sympathize with me- I don't expect- but neither do I think you have the same 'feelings' as I do...

I'm am unloved but I love everyone- I am altruistic toward everyone I can help. If I find a way to save that person in disregard for myself- so be it. That is my mentality.

If I could meet all of you- I'd all help you in everyway I could possible- like a brother and sister-

Where am I going with this??

Well... I think I said enough.