Originally Posted by
super_luu
You weren't his type, point blank.
I think the connotation with "fag" is very close-minded IMO. Especially when its used within the gay community. There has been a divide between more "masculine" gay males and more feminine gay males, and its ridiculous. I don't know where you are really coming from, but it sounds like you strongly dislike homosexuals that act a certain way.
Sadly, you have to embrace it. Telling a more flamboyant homosexual to "tone it down" or not be such a "fagget" is like telling a black person not to be so "ghetto".
Stereotype behavior is a natural thing, why do you think people in a large group naturally act a certain way? Even when it isn't instilled in them, some personality traits are more prominent in certain groups of people.
But I drifted slightly away from the topic at hand. He ain't wantchu, boo. Perhaps you're going after the wrong type of guy? Try not to think about it too much, humans get emotionally weak when we feel our vanity is at stake.