Well, here is my rant.
I found out about two weeks ago one of my best friend's (from since we were of age 8 ) girlfriends is pregnant, at the age of 21. This is not great news (in my eyes), because they are both financially unstable and their relationship is extremely unhealthy, an emotional rollercoaster is how I could best describe their bond most of the time. He has been with let's call her "Amy" for the past 3 years off and on with some of the most unnecessary drama you could ever imagine. My friend was suicidal for a time and had a major self-esteem issue that he couldn't seem to shake. I would always try and attempt to council him with his dillemas and give him my point of view on things. He would genuinely listen, but never follow through with anything he would tell me. Every other week something new would pop up and we would go to Dennys to talk things over, but it just seemed like an endless cycle of futility. He ended up moving down South (about 8 hours away) to rent an apartment and live with Amy, and since then, I rarely speak with him. While I'm kind of disappointed and sad that I have lost touch with him, the problem I have mostly lies with Amy. My friend has a problem with females running his life, and he seems to drop everything for companionship, including his friends (sadly for him, he's been in relationships where girls take advantage of this). I don't blame him, and I'm not angry about it, but its depressing to see a guy who's foundation was undefined become even worse.
While I know many of you believe I should not judge Amy so harshly, you have to understand she has given me enough evidence to label her a bitch with low moral character. When I first talked with her, it was over AIM, and she lied to me about her appearance, sending me pictures of her cousin, telling me it was her. When my friend brought her up to visit, she was borderline obese with emotional problems. When we first met in person, she angerly accused me of trying to break off their relationship (which was not my intentions), and kept mentioning how imature I was being about the whole situation. I really didn't respond too much to what she was saying, I mostly tried to curve the conversation and put the focus more on my friend other than the hatred she had towards me.
Presently, we get along, but in a nutshell, I believe she has really ruined my friend's life. Although I don't know thw whole circumstances behind the pregnancy, I wouldn't put it past her to have planned this pregnancy to insure a life with him.
I know he is responsible for his actions, but I truly believe she may have been lying to him about taking birth control, but I don't know for sure. He is not ready for a baby, and I know he was not planning on having a kid anytime soon.
It's so fucking irritating. I'm tired, I'll post more later.
<font size=-1>[ This Message was edited by: hollowtip on 2005-01-28 01:03 ]</font>
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