Man..that really sucks Mystil D:
I've been in that situation a few times myself, actually. I'll sit there paralyzed or asleep and NOBODY in the party will use a Sol and the Techer won't use Reverser.
Luckily, I'm like a wall with a little over 3,000 HP, but still..come on! You're sitting there, not able to do anything and you're thinking, "Okaaaay! What's taking so long?!" when you're probably one of the most valuable assets to the party, since you do so much damage and whatnot.
It can be a bit irritating *sighs*
Some people shouldn't be a support type if they don't know how to do their job