07-08-2005, 07:15 PM
You know what? I've had it up to here! *points all the way up into the sky*
A lot of my family members have a horrible habit of harassing me because I don't date guys of my same race.
And I thought the times have changed! Bah!
I keep telling them that I'm just not interested in the guys. Since I go to a mostly Latino / White / Asian school, the whole dating someone other than an African American thing was bound to come up reguardless!
Why is it so hard (for a family who complains about not being able to do what they please because of their race) to understand that I have my own needs and wants, too? It's not like I'm sleeping around or betraying my family or anything. My fetishes, my thoughts, my choices are all my own, and they need to get that through their heads!
Matter of fact, after years of conversations and mishaps... I can say that my family isn't even a close-knit, caring, or even remotely supportive one!
My cousin and his wife are two smartasses who can't even support their child, my stepdad is a liar, my grandaunt is a gossipy little prick, and my dad sleeps around and acts like an immature boy for his age.
It's horrible... And so many years of taking orders and not complaining? HA! Pardon my language, but fuck them. Fuck all of them. They don't even support my choices. They're all there to find out information and talk about each other.
And they wonder why I don't like being around them during parties. Psh. To hell with them all.