MEDIATOR-su

[Sayara]

<Tingle> MY GOD LORD
<Tingle> I am tired
<Tingle> of being like
<Tingle> PEER MEDIATOR
<Tingle> two friends talk to me today
<Tingle> both saying they gonna do/get broked up
<Tingle> One has no balls to do it
<Tingle> and is alwwayysss nagging and nagging about it
<Tingle> WE ALWAYS FIGHT
<Tingle> I SHOULD CALL IT QUITS
<Tingle> AND SHOULD I??!
<Tingle> I AM NOT YOUR MOTHER
<Tingle> IF YOU WANNA DO IT DOOO IT
<Tingle> and the other guy is all
<Tingle> I GOT BROKED UP
<Tingle> 3 YEARS BLA BLA BLA

<Tingle> Its just frustrating me alot
<Tingle> you know
<Tingle> Im too nice
<Tingle> people always tell me their problems
<Tingle> and 99% of the time its something i don't know how to hel
<Tingle> hel]pr


YeS, I am tooo fucking lazy to edit the IRC chatting.

[HUnewearl_Meira]

So wait, you were the mediator between two guys breaking up? o_O

[Sayara]

Im sorry 2 different stories.

#1 being fussy about breaking up

the #2 is about BEINg broken up.

[Mixfortune]

But not necessarily to each other, for those still confused.

I know what you mean though. I tend to try and help people but at my own expense and at times it ends up coming back at me in a bad form. I know I could say "if it's that painful, why do you keep doing it?" but I ask myself that as well. In either case, you could either take a break, or realize that, while you may not be sure how to help, sometimes just listening is all that's needed. Or, if you feel that helping people is being detrimental to yourself, just realize that helping people with their issues does not somehow contaminate you.

[Banish]

Sorry to hear about that, Tingle.

I don't have any advice for you right now, just don't think of yourself as a bad person.