PhotonDrop
Apr 24, 2007, 02:32 PM
So this friend of mine, she is generally a cool person and has been a friend since I was a kid. Never had one serious arguement before, til a month ago at least.
Happy days she gets laid and I don't really care, I hate her boyfriend because of how he acts and she knows it. So as a friend I tell her to be careful and not screw up. She says she knows and blah. I remind her of how she told me once that EVERY girl says "they know" and next thing you know they're pregnant. This whole time I'm talking like I would any other conversation - - indifferent and casual, no sarcasm or plain being an ass. So she gets upset with me and we are at odds for a week or so, along with her boyfriend sending me threats(my kid brother could take the fucker, who's he kidding?).
But you see, thats not the problem. Yesterday that day gets brought up by another friend who was present. Now this guy, he's the type that goes out of his way to be a pain in the ass and can never be taken seriously because he laughs about everything. Suddenly I find myself hearing how I was so angry that day, and I was criticizing her sex life, the hell? Okay, still, no real problem, so I explain myself.
"You didn't say that!! You were criticizing my sex life! He heard you and I was on the phone with my boyfriend at the time, and HE heard you!"
I don't care how many punks heard me, nobody's going to tell me what I fucking said. Now this is somewhat hypocritical of me, but she was not on the phone. Her dad had taken it away from her on that very day. Eventually it boiled down to
"Did I really? What did I say?"
"You said... well, you were criticizing my sex life and..."
"HOW did I criticize your sex life? It was your first fucking time. So is saying be careful so you don't screw up your life criticism? Was being a friend and listening to you because you were nervous about it happening and needed to tell me criticism?"
"BUT HE HEARD YOU!"
"So what? He can't tell me what I said either, neither of you know what I said, You're just mad I wasn't happy for you."
Then I explain how I didn't care because I think her boyfriend is a douchebag who needs to grow up instead of trying to get into fights with people over the most simplistic matters, and she looks at me like I just spat in her grandmothers ashes and storms off.
So tell me, is it just me, or is the subject barely worth the fighting? I think this is completely stupid and should have never happened, how about you?
Happy days she gets laid and I don't really care, I hate her boyfriend because of how he acts and she knows it. So as a friend I tell her to be careful and not screw up. She says she knows and blah. I remind her of how she told me once that EVERY girl says "they know" and next thing you know they're pregnant. This whole time I'm talking like I would any other conversation - - indifferent and casual, no sarcasm or plain being an ass. So she gets upset with me and we are at odds for a week or so, along with her boyfriend sending me threats(my kid brother could take the fucker, who's he kidding?).
But you see, thats not the problem. Yesterday that day gets brought up by another friend who was present. Now this guy, he's the type that goes out of his way to be a pain in the ass and can never be taken seriously because he laughs about everything. Suddenly I find myself hearing how I was so angry that day, and I was criticizing her sex life, the hell? Okay, still, no real problem, so I explain myself.
"You didn't say that!! You were criticizing my sex life! He heard you and I was on the phone with my boyfriend at the time, and HE heard you!"
I don't care how many punks heard me, nobody's going to tell me what I fucking said. Now this is somewhat hypocritical of me, but she was not on the phone. Her dad had taken it away from her on that very day. Eventually it boiled down to
"Did I really? What did I say?"
"You said... well, you were criticizing my sex life and..."
"HOW did I criticize your sex life? It was your first fucking time. So is saying be careful so you don't screw up your life criticism? Was being a friend and listening to you because you were nervous about it happening and needed to tell me criticism?"
"BUT HE HEARD YOU!"
"So what? He can't tell me what I said either, neither of you know what I said, You're just mad I wasn't happy for you."
Then I explain how I didn't care because I think her boyfriend is a douchebag who needs to grow up instead of trying to get into fights with people over the most simplistic matters, and she looks at me like I just spat in her grandmothers ashes and storms off.
So tell me, is it just me, or is the subject barely worth the fighting? I think this is completely stupid and should have never happened, how about you?