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Shadowpawn
Dec 31, 2007, 05:08 PM
Seriously, I'm not trying to be funny or anything. I just want to know why? I mean what is it about teh AZN womenz that ya'll like? I am quite perplexed. :S

Feelmirath
Dec 31, 2007, 05:45 PM
Well, I don't. XP

I don't really know what makes them so SPESHUL either.

TetsuyaHikari
Dec 31, 2007, 05:48 PM
Hmmm..well, I can't answer for the rest of the people here, but..I'll throw in my two cents meseta on the matter.

I don't like the typical tall beach blonde with the hooters size of basketballs like most people I know (it seems to be "every man's dream girl"). Plus, MOST of the stuff I like comes from Japan anyway (i.e. anime, music, video games, figures, manga, food, etc.).

So, I like the girls/women from the country as well. I think they are more entertaining and cuter than the females we have in the States, honestly.

It's all about preference http://www.pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_razz.gif

KodiaX987
Dec 31, 2007, 07:20 PM
You can't explain that stuff. It's either visceral or the question just gets asked again and again:

"Why do you like Asians?"

"Well, they got, say, cute eyes..."

"Why do you like Asian eyes?"

"Uhh..."

Impasse!

Sgt_Shligger
Dec 31, 2007, 07:22 PM
It's really just preference. I don't understand myself, I'm one who's more into <insert preferences>.

Monochrome
Dec 31, 2007, 07:25 PM
Asian girls just have the aire of exotic-ness to them... I mean I like all types of girls, and girls of mixed heritage (i.e. mexican/vietnamese or white/black etc.) have even a greater sort of original beauty.. but asians are just so dam cute to boot... I feel fortunate to live in SoCal where I am surrounded by all diff communities of asians (viet, japanese, korean) .. How do you describe attractivity? (is that even a word??)

Omega_Weltall
Dec 31, 2007, 08:37 PM
donno... i just always had a thing for asian girls. donno why

ABDUR101
Dec 31, 2007, 09:09 PM
I see two types of people; those who enjoy inherited features(physical and upbringing), and those who objectify.

Those who objectify tend to just go oogly merely because "omg its teh azn, WIN!", and generally don't really care about much else. They could have the biggest peice of marketted shit from japan or anywhere else, and to them it'll be the best thing since sliced bread, merely because it's from someplace they idolize. Whether its a person or a thing, it's objectified.

VanHalen
Dec 31, 2007, 10:34 PM
I like all kindz of wimmenz.

RavenTW
Dec 31, 2007, 10:57 PM
Because a person can and because a person wants to. That's all the answer you need.

Personally, I have a thing for the Latina's body. Asian girls are okay, but they tend to be more of a Lolita icon, and I don't enjoy that.

Shadowpawn
Dec 31, 2007, 11:04 PM
On 2007-12-31 19:57, RavenTW wrote:
Because a person can and because a person wants to. That's all the answer you need.




That's understood, but it's more of a craze online than anything. Everywhere I go it's like, "OMG hawt azn!" Not that's there is anything wrong with that. I like Asian women myself...in moderation.




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omegapirate2k
Dec 31, 2007, 11:29 PM
I'm an equal opportunity employer when it comes to the chicas.

TetsuyaHikari
Dec 31, 2007, 11:50 PM
I'd also like to add..if you are married to an asian woman, then you don't have to worry about seeing her look all wrinkly and such till she hits about 70. You can't really say the same about the women in the States.

For some odd reason, whether it be male or female..if they are Asian and in their 40's or 50's, you would think they were actually in their late 20's, maaaaybe early 30's. I mean, come on..look at Jackie Chan.

I remember going to my Korean friend's graduation a couple of years back and his uncle came along, but he looked more like his brother. He said to me, "How old do you think I am?" and I looked at him for a moment, then said, "I don't know..uhh...28?", then he laughed and said, "You really think so? Hahaha! No no..I am 48".

So, there's always that to look forward to as well http://www.pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_razz.gif

Angelo
Jan 1, 2008, 12:25 AM
I wish I could answer this, but I can't.

It's sort've like that whole "Why do you eat Apple Jacks if they don't taste like apples?"

I just do.

Yeah.

That's not to say I only find asian women attractive. I just happen to find them the most attractive and caucasian women the least attractive. I've been that way since about 5th grade, I guess that's when hormones kick in and all that shit.

Solstis
Jan 1, 2008, 02:43 AM
On 2007-12-31 18:09, ABDUR101 wrote:
I see two types of people; those who enjoy inherited features(physical and upbringing), and those who objectify.

Those who objectify tend to just go oogly merely because "omg its teh azn, WIN!", and generally don't really care about much else. They could have the biggest peice of marketted shit from japan or anywhere else, and to them it'll be the best thing since sliced bread, merely because it's from someplace they idolize. Whether its a person or a thing, it's objectified.



Abdur, I thank you.

Alisha
Jan 1, 2008, 03:28 AM
i think asians have beautiful faces personally. i may have a thing for dark hair as well since i like asians blacks and indians(from india) i myself am a mixed race girl black/white.

EphekZ
Jan 1, 2008, 03:36 AM
I never really liked them, I tried dating a few, but I just couldn't be seen in public with them (lol!) so I broke it up with them. Any other type of women, I never felt ashamed, haha.

BlaizeYES
Jan 1, 2008, 03:43 AM
I LOVE AUSTRAILIANS YES

DizzyDi
Jan 1, 2008, 05:13 AM
On 2007-12-31 19:57, RavenTW wrote:

Personally, I have a thing for the Latina's body.



/hi5. Latinas are fhxn hawt.

I used to have yellow fever BAD. Now it comes and goes. Somedays I have a hankering for Asians, the other days they look ugly to me.
Truthfully tho, I like all kinds of wimminz.
ITS ALL PINK ON THE INSIDE LOL AMIRITE!!!

SubstanceD
Jan 1, 2008, 08:13 AM
I'm guilty of having a thing for asian women. I don't really know where this thing comes from, I just know that it is there. Maybe Monochrome is right, maybe it is because they have an aire of exotic-ness.

Shadowpawn
Jan 1, 2008, 11:34 AM
On 2008-01-01 02:13, DizzyDi wrote:

On 2007-12-31 19:57, RavenTW wrote:

Personally, I have a thing for the Latina's body.



/hi5. Latinas are fhxn hawt.




Yeah, but they also have bad tempers. Good luck if she thinks you're cheating on her. You might end up with a couple of stab wounds or something. >_<

KaFKa
Jan 1, 2008, 12:38 PM
What about half latina/Half Italian?

Shadowpawn
Jan 1, 2008, 01:03 PM
Same Difference, KaFKa. Only the Italian side will make her mean as hell. So now you have to do with her being both mean AND angry! Nothing's worse than a paranoid consistently pissed off chick that loves you!

Blitzkommando
Jan 1, 2008, 02:11 PM
Because throughout most of the US East Asians are of the smallest minority. This area I live in? It's about as homogenous as you can get. Most communities here are in the ballpark of 95+% caucasian. Nothing wrong with that, but sometimes a man wants to explore, to see something new and different. In my graduating class I could count the number of people that weren't caucasian using my fingers and toes and only two were of Asian ancestry out of a class of around 300. So, yeah, they're exotic compared to the scores of blondes and brunettes with either fake tans or horribly pale skin that I see.

Me? I like women of all backgrounds. As for the reasons I like some Asian women it's facial structure, skin tone, eye color, hair color and texture, often times personality, and upbringing and culture. The same reasons could be used for other races of women as well. Beauty is in the eye of the beholder and for me a healthy woman's body is about the most beautiful thing I can think of, regardless of race.

Shadowpawn
Jan 1, 2008, 02:22 PM
(Sounds like Norvekh has a way with words...must be handy with the ladies.) You don't say...

Monochrome
Jan 1, 2008, 02:28 PM
On 2008-01-01 09:38, KaFKa wrote:
What about half latina/Half Italian?



Gorgeous, but crazy. You don't wanna make that girl mad, trust me! (stereotyping, but just my experience)

Angelo
Jan 1, 2008, 03:25 PM
Stereotyping isn't a big deal. I have no problem admitting my people (latinos) have notorious tempers.

HUnewearl_Meira
Jan 1, 2008, 03:44 PM
On 2007-12-31 16:25, Monochrome wrote:
Asian girls just have the aire of exotic-ness to them... I mean I like all types of girls, and girls of mixed heritage (i.e. mexican/vietnamese or white/black etc.) have even a greater sort of original beauty.. but asians are just so dam cute to boot... I feel fortunate to live in SoCal where I am surrounded by all diff communities of asians (viet, japanese, korean) .. How do you describe attractivity? (is that even a word??)



Attractiveness is the word you're looking for.

Altogether, I think you're probably fairly close to being right. What I've observed is that, generally speaking, white guys, and to a certain extent, black guys as well, have a predilection to being attracted to Asian women. I don't really know just what it is, but I think that it may be the "exoticness" of which you speak. If you're white, you tend to grow up around white people, and if you're black, you tend to grow up around black people, and then you meet this Asian woman, and all of a sudden, you have someone that looks completely different from you and everyone you know.

I've gotten the impression that this propensity is not present in Persian men; though for what it's worth, the one Persian that I've talked to about this isn't really very typical among Persian men, so maybe I'm entirely wrong on this.

Dopples
Jan 1, 2008, 11:44 PM
On 2008-01-01 09:38, KaFKa wrote:
What about half latina/Half Italian?



First of all, I love your sig. Silent Hill 3 ftw.


Anyways, honestly, I don't care what nationality my guys/girls are, it all comes down to two things. Personality, and looks. Race shouldn't matter at all.

Shiro_Ryuu
Jan 1, 2008, 11:55 PM
As much of a Wapanese that I am, I'm equal oppurtunity, and it may come across as a shock to those who know I'm Wapanese. I don't really care if something comes from Japan. Yeah, when I came back from Japan, I did bring with me and kept a soda can and Oxy pad container from Japan for the novelty of it [I mean, those soda cans from Japan look really cool, I HAD to keep one].

Also, I do in fact, have a Japanese girlfriend, but its not because she's Japanese, its just that she's a really nice girl, and she just so happens to be Japanese. If I can get a girlfriend here who was really nice and accepting of me for who I am and everything else I'm looking for in a girl, then I'll be trying my best to ask her out whether she's white, asian, black, latina, native american, or middle eastern, race isn't important. Of course, I do know quite a few Japanese girls when I went to Japan, and many of them were really hot, and really nice girls at the same time. I do like Asian girls, and many of them are attractive, but there are girls of other races who are attractive too.

AlexCraig
Jan 2, 2008, 12:01 AM
On 2007-12-31 21:25, Angelo wrote:
I wish I could answer this, but I can't.

It's sort've like that whole "Why do you eat Apple Jacks if they don't taste like apples?"

I just do.

Yeah.


Pretty much sums it up for me. I couldn't have said it better.

InfinityXXX
Jan 2, 2008, 12:35 AM
It's all abut preference..i guess....

..I will say, that most folks that I know online that are into asian women are also into certain parts of asian culture so that might influence what they find attractive in a woman......I mean it kinda works with anything...*cough* the white dude thats really into afro-american culure and loves black women....yea...........

....Me personally, It all depends on what I connect with...I've dated so many women solely because of how pretty they are..... and thats the reason why I'm single right now (*cries*)

...I do however have my preferences on what I find attractive in a woman (I'm mainly attracted to black girls....dark skinned black at that....) but I won't just limit myself to that (though that would be nice)

...if I connected with an asian girl..I would date her....a white girl...I'll date her.....hell, if she was ugly...yes, I'll date her..........I'm looknig for a girl thats compatible with me and a partner in life......not because of her looks or what race she is.....

BlaizeYES
Jan 2, 2008, 04:41 AM
i just like a good accent, and a unique personality

Kylie
Jan 2, 2008, 03:00 PM
My guess would be all that anime. http://www.pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_razz.gif To be honest, some Asian guys are attractive to me.

Solstis
Jan 2, 2008, 03:32 PM
Good luck being in a relationship with someone you fetishize as an exotic object.

That's a fight waiting to happen.

Angelo
Jan 2, 2008, 04:44 PM
I was waiting to bring something up, but didn't want to start it until the first cannon had been fired, because it's something I've experienced alot.


But through my own life and from what I've heard from friends it seems like white women have a bit of an arrogance issue they might not even consciously know about in terms of looks and human aesthetics. So I'm going to nail that one first;


Whenever a guy says they're attracted to asian women the response is always "Oh, well it must be some exoticism thing", "I can understand if it's some kind've fetish". So in order for a white, black, hispanic, etc. man to be attracted to an asian we must have something tweaked or kinked in our minds? Yet for a foreign guy, or black, or hispanic to have a thing for white women they think nothing of it, as if that's just the way things are. Is it really that hard to swallow that some people might find asians to be genuinely more attractive than westerners without having something 'wrong with them'. Because that's what's being implied.

I think women who think this way need to get over themselves. You can't be the 'cream of the crop' to every set of eyes in the entire world.


Now I'm going to bring something else up, the fact it could also be a cultural thing. In the east, women for the most part take pride in being feminine. It's a good thing to act soft and sweet there. In the west it's really the opposite, women are taught to be tough and stomp all over guys' jewels. It's one of those things I noticed; You know how girls always say they want some nice, clean-cut, super-sensitive guy but they really want a rugged asshole to sweep them off their feet? Well guys sort've do the same thing, they say they like 'strong, independent' women but only so they can get laid. That's pretty fucked if you ask me. Most guys really just want a sweetheart who will kiss them when they come home from work and make them a sandwich. Women still do that stuff in Japan and S.Korea and all those places.


Oh, and if the guy above me thought his post was flamebait; lulz.

Saner
Jan 2, 2008, 04:47 PM
well ya I find the really good looking asians in general to be more pleasant looking than other races in a extrordinary way, but to a degree can be the same said about good looking white ones, but it depends on people's preference of flavors. http://www.pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_razz.gif

Angelo
Jan 2, 2008, 04:50 PM
On 2008-01-02 13:47, Saner wrote:
but it depends on people's preference of flavors. http://www.pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_razz.gif

Thank you.

Shadowpawn
Jan 2, 2008, 05:11 PM
On 2008-01-02 13:44, Angelo wrote:


I was waiting to bring something up, but didn't want to start it until the first cannon had been fired, because it's something I've experienced alot.


But through my own life and from what I've heard from friends it seems like white women have a bit of an arrogance issue they might not even consciously know about in terms of looks and human aesthetics. So I'm going to nail that one first;


Whenever a guy says they're attracted to asian women the response is always "Oh, well it must be some exoticism thing", "I can understand if it's some kind've fetish". So in order for a white, black, hispanic, etc. man to be attracted to an asian we must have something tweaked or kinked in our minds? Yet for a foreign guy, or black, or hispanic to have a thing for white women they think nothing of it, as if that's just the way things are. Is it really that hard to swallow that some people might find asians to be genuinely more attractive than westerners without having something 'wrong with them'. Because that's what's being implied.

I think women who think this way need to get over themselves. You can't be the 'cream of the crop' to every set of eyes in the entire world.


Now I'm going to bring something else up, the fact it could also be a cultural thing. In the east, women for the most part take pride in being feminine. It's a good thing to act soft and sweet there. In the west it's really the opposite, women are taught to be tough and stomp all over guys' jewels. It's one of those things I noticed; You know how girls always say they want some nice, clean-cut, super-sensitive guy but they really want a rugged asshole to sweep them off their feet? Well guys sort've do the same thing, they say they like 'strong, independent' women but only so they can get laid. That's pretty fucked if you ask me. Most guys really just want a sweetheart who will kiss them when they come home from work and make them a sandwich. Women still do that stuff in Japan and S.Korea and all those places.


Oh, and if the guy above me thought his post was flamebait; lulz.




I never thought it that way. It's true what you say about what some white women might say in response to hearing about a guy liking another women of a different ethnicity than themselves. However I must add that it isn't limited to just white women. As a black man I've heard the same thing come from the mouths of black women regarding a black man preferring a white or asian women.

So in response to your statement I offer this insight. Women who do choose to respond in this manner may be saving face. As if the very fact that a man of the same ethnicity preferring someone else of a different ethnicity is a slap in the face to them, thus the response. So in turn I don't think it's said solely out of a arrogance in which they are assuming dominant air over the other women the guy prefers but more of a wounded pride. Or however you want to take it.

As for the whole say one thing but really mean the other thing your post is addressing, I kinda agree with your point. However I guess it's really all apart of this twisted dating game the West has going for it. In order to get want you really want you got to get your partner to read you...and such. Either that or you could blame feminism (however I'm not trying excite an EPIC war here and I don't want to be called a sexist pig so let's not k?)

Ssslither
Jan 2, 2008, 05:49 PM
Me being a woman with guy friends that like them lol here is their answer: "Because it makes them feel like a porn star" LMAO

Shadowpawn
Jan 2, 2008, 06:21 PM
Ladies and Gentlemen, A ShinMaruku...heh wait a minute! Keep your damn random poison out mah non-FKL thread Shin!

Solstis
Jan 2, 2008, 06:22 PM
I was not speaking from the position of a woman, or a white person.

I am mixed. I don't have some cultural or ethnic superiority complex because I don't belong to any in particular.

My point was that if you find, say, Asians more attractive that others, to the point of being a rice queen/king, you will come to a point with your spouse/partner/whatever that you'll find that you know little about their culture. Or, they may not necessarily have any connection to the culture or people that you find so fantastic.

That's how fights start. "Wait, so you don't fit my anachronistic profile?"

It's like when some white people call a black person "bro." What? What the hell white people? Same goes for assuming that every Indian is Hindu. I have an Indian boyfriend, and I can't tell you how many times I've ticked him off by making assumptions about how he thinks/feels about things.

And, honestly, if you want a woman who will kiss you and make you a sandwich, you probably don't want Korean or Japanese girls. Because, y'know, they wizened up since the 19th century. Some stick to the old Confucianism practices, but a lot are straying now. I thought the point was to find someone that you love, not someone to fetch you a beer and your slippers. Independent women think for themselves, not for their controlling hubby.

Not to say that household devotion and independence can't coincide. Just that the man shouldn't expect these sorts of things, but be delighted if they do happen.


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Angelo
Jan 2, 2008, 06:34 PM
On 2008-01-02 15:22, Solstis wrote:Because, y'know, they wizened up since the 19th century.


If you think that's 'wise' then you are a fool.

However, I don't want to turn this into a 'feminism has destroyed the world' rant, since that would be straying too far off-topic. I will just leave it at that.

ShinMaruku
Jan 2, 2008, 06:38 PM
On 2008-01-01 08:34, Shadowpawn wrote:

On 2008-01-01 02:13, DizzyDi wrote:

On 2007-12-31 19:57, RavenTW wrote:

Personally, I have a thing for the Latina's body.



/hi5. Latinas are fhxn hawt.




Yeah, but they also have bad tempers. Good luck if she thinks you're cheating on her. You might end up with a couple of stab wounds or something. >_<


Jamaican women. Now that is hell.
You yellow fever guys would love mah cuz, half Chinese Half Jamaican. Now she's gonna cuss you and kill you in your sleep.

Kylie
Jan 2, 2008, 06:46 PM
On 2008-01-02 12:32, Solstis wrote:
Good luck being in a relationship with someone you fetishize as an exotic object.

That's a fight waiting to happen.


True. It's possible to find someone you dig physically and emotionally though. http://www.pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_razz.gif

ShinMaruku
Jan 2, 2008, 06:52 PM
If you have money however.. Things are possible.

Shadowpawn
Jan 2, 2008, 07:04 PM
On 2008-01-02 15:52, ShinMaruku wrote:
If you have money however.. Things are possible.



Well that's kinda of a corrupt statement there Shin. It's not true in some cases but nevertheless...

BlaizeYES
Jan 2, 2008, 07:47 PM
On 2008-01-02 15:34, Angelo wrote:

However, I don't want to turn this into a 'feminism has destroyed the world' rant, since that would be straying too far off-topic. I will just leave it at that.




LOL. angelo you already made a pretty hefty statement.


ive always lived in semi-big to bigger cities where it's culturally diverse. i've met alot of people from outside of america, met people through other people, and even dated a few girls from different backgrounds because typically they are more interesting.

that even goes with my guy friends, as well. one of my best friends was born in scotland and moved here at 14, another one lived in australia half of his life and has always been a long time friend. i prefer them as friends because they have goals, ambition, and are more self-actualized than a typical american the same age that deep down wishes that their life was a movie. instead of working themselves into fitting in or being part of a "culture," they define it for themselves, and they dont get tied into little mtv-like conflicts like they're on "the real world." they just genuinely like to have fun with whoever. conversation has more depth than many other people my same age and even older... it's not trying to look like they "party all the time" or have this fabricated extravagant life. it's actually being a mature, independent person who wants to be somebody in the future... not give off the image of being "a somebody" presently, when you're actually a nobody. i know it's not just america that has these kind of people, but typically when someone moves from another country, theres a purpose. even if the move is against their will, their parent's motives for relocating to an entirely different country rubs off on them and normally they share the same beliefs.

i don't know what it is, but alot of american girls from the ages of 14-20(and sometimes beyond that age) think that mimicking "charlie's angels" is your key to being an "independent woman." in reality, an independent woman is someone who sets their emotions aside to get where they want to be in the future. they may seem a little more detatched from other people's "feelings," but what they need to do to be successful. instead of just missing work constantly and revolving their lives around some 18 year old boyfriend(which happened to a regretted girlfriend of mine 3 years ago and a few times with others) and trying to make every day filled with drama, independent women don't truely care about that. thats why i like them.



as for the whole asian thing, i'm sure people have already said it a few times. they have more melodrama and are highly emotional in their media; and people watch their anime, tv shows, music, and then create this image of a japanese woman being "the woman of their dreams" through an entire country. thats all i think of it. but hey, thats just me. i don't really find all too many asian women that attractive.

ShinMaruku
Jan 2, 2008, 08:16 PM
On 2008-01-02 16:04, Shadowpawn wrote:

On 2008-01-02 15:52, ShinMaruku wrote:
If you have money however.. Things are possible.



Well that's kinda of a corrupt statement there Shin. It's not true in some cases but nevertheless...


People of rthe most part are fools corruptable fools. Sure they are other things but with dumb asses in humanity, "Money,Money,Money"

Noblewine
Jan 3, 2008, 12:57 AM
I don't know it's normal I supose.. http://www.pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/anime2.gif

Solstis
Jan 3, 2008, 01:14 AM
Hey, I agreed with BlaizeYes again. I think that's twice now.

Feminism hasn't destroyed the world, and if it has destroyed your personal world, then you might want to readjust some things.

Anyway, feminism kinda killed itself, and no longer exists as a cohesive whole, so pointing fingers at "feminism" is silly. There's some feminists that want to be housewives and consider that their circle of influence, and others probably want to shoot every man that they see. It depends.

I do watch some Korean dramas with my mom, and even in them, a lot of the girls are fiercely independent (that is sometimes considered a problem, but that's another story). My point was that Korean girls aren't happy lolitas with maid uniforms, at least none that I've met. My mom's generation, yeah, tend to be housewives, but have their wits about them.

There's nothing wrong with being a housewife (I think), but to expect your wife to be one isn't fair.

(To be more on-topic, I don't particularly favor Far-East Asians)

Sord
Jan 3, 2008, 06:26 PM
What's with all the stereotypical women of a certain race equals certain attitude (even if it's a joke in some cases) Seriously, that's some of the biggest crock of bull I've heard. Women vary in attitude across cultures. The area I live in is pretty well mixed, and I know various groups/cliques with plenty of interacial mixing in them. I know an artsy girl that's asian, another that's a peppy cheerleader, and one that is a goth. Building up false pretenses on race with an assumed culture is a fool's errand. If anyone is going to really go for a relationship for someone, I hope to hell they learn about the girl first and not judge the personality on looks. For sure, looks are definitly going to play some part in who you like, but looks shouldn't be confused with personality.

Sinue_v2
Jan 3, 2008, 06:53 PM
Eh, I enjoy a wide variety of tastes in women. I think it's the exoticness, the difference. My community is primarily white/hispanic. And while I like latino women, I find myself more attracted to black and asian women. Or both. Although not necessarily both. I like big butts and small breasts, but I don't think the features are interchangeable. However, there are exceptions to every rule.

Also, Native American women can be extremely cute.

Angelo
Jan 3, 2008, 07:19 PM
On 2008-01-02 22:14, Solstis wrote:
Hey, I agreed with BlaizeYes again. I think that's twice now.

Feminism hasn't destroyed the world, and if it has destroyed your personal world, then you might want to readjust some things.

Anyway, feminism kinda killed itself, and no longer exists as a cohesive whole, so pointing fingers at "feminism" is silly. There's some feminists that want to be housewives and consider that their circle of influence, and others probably want to shoot every man that they see. It depends.

I do watch some Korean dramas with my mom, and even in them, a lot of the girls are fiercely independent (that is sometimes considered a problem, but that's another story). My point was that Korean girls aren't happy lolitas with maid uniforms, at least none that I've met. My mom's generation, yeah, tend to be housewives, but have their wits about them.

There's nothing wrong with being a housewife (I think), but to expect your wife to be one isn't fair.

(To be more on-topic, I don't particularly favor Far-East Asians)



This is entirely off topic to the original subject:


The fact that you think feminism is dead, along with some other statements here makes me think you don't get out very much or aren't a very observant person.

The only reason it seems as if feminism is dead is because they succeeded and we're now living in the society they've molded. They carry the burden of being responsible for the destruction of the nuclear family and family life in general. This is not a burden that everyone can see.

I don't know about you all, but family life is probably the most important thing to me. So yes, I do expect my wife to be a homemaker. And she should expect me to have a job, pay the bills, be loyal, be supportive, etc.

And you know what? I don't think men and women are equal! I actually think women are a little bit more important. At least they used to be back when they were the center of the nuclear family. I think having children and being a homemaker; creating new life in a loving environment is a lot more important than something as earth-bound as making green pieces of paper and moving heavy objects. But I guess you'd kind've have to be a non-realist to understand something like that.

So really, don't tell me what I expect isn't 'fair'.

I think the fact that modern society ruined the ideal family life isn't 'fair'.

But you know what? Life isn't 'fair'.

Solstis
Jan 3, 2008, 07:53 PM
That's so cute!

It simultaneously puts women on a pedastal while disallowing them from exploring things outside of the home! Also adorable is the assumption that men are incapable of loving, taking care of, and raising children! Marvelous!

Increased divorce rates and the collapse of the nuclear family probably have more to do with men being jerks (extra-marital affairs and whatnot) than femininists "winning."

Anyway, the nuclear family isn't dead, and I think I've only had a few friends with divorced parents. I'm not sure where your rampant pessimism is coming from.

Angelo
Jan 3, 2008, 07:56 PM
On 2008-01-03 16:53, Solstis wrote:
That's so cute!

It simultaneously puts women on a pedastal while disallowing them from exploring things outside of the home! Also adorable is the assumption that men are incapable of loving, taking care of, and raising children! Marvelous!

Increased divorce rates and the collapse of the nuclear family probably have more to do with men being jerks (extra-marital affairs and whatnot) than femininists "winning."

Anyway, the nuclear family isn't dead, and I think I've only had a few friends with divorced parents. I'm not sure where your rampant pessimism is coming from.




You've really bought into all the lies that the corporate clowns and media have fed you.

I'm sorry.

I also never said men were incapable of any of those things. I'm just saying women are better at them and are genetically tailored towards them. Ever heard of maternal instincts? They're not there to be ignored.

And my 'rampant pessimism' comes from living in California, which is a paragon example of how modern influence corrupts society.



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BlaizeYES
Jan 3, 2008, 09:08 PM
the nuclear family has been in decline since the service era in the 60s-70s and since then, everything has been "restructuring." it isnt just because of a single person in a femily, it's more because everyone has shifted their lifestyle to becoming lazier and chasing pipedreams rather than practical ones... or just not having any dreams at all. now the entire basis of the american dream is based on luck, maybe becoming a "rockstar" or something else thats just retarded. the 70s and beyond have been years of single-parent families, inventions to make americans lazier, and fast food chains. nobody shares the same beliefs as they did 40 years ago. you can't blame it on the women of the 60s alone; the kids were also swayed into the era of hippies and weed smoking of the 60s, and we burned all of our resources and tarnished the sacredness of the nuclear family. there was no innocence any longer in kids, and the "rebel" kids that thought they were james dean that sat out back smoking cigarettes were now smoking weed and tripping on acid and shit. at least when the rebels of the 50s were getting into trouble, they still had jobs and were proactive, regardless of their cause. rebel kids of the 70s that smoke weed all day and try to find their quickest fix are usually the ones that just sit in their mom's basement until they're 25-30 and dont take any initiative, end up working at some dead end job and then calling it a good life. and THAT hasnt ruined the family structure at all?

worst part is, the 60s were supposedly one of "the greatest times in history," but of course we get stuck with the hangover. because of what our parents and grandparents did 30-40 years ago, we have to live in this shithole society. they had all the fun with "the culture movement" and freedom of drug use and no organization... but we got the serial killers, cult leaders, insane vietnam veterans, the commercialized drug use, and the comepletely distorted image of a "family." even i dont want to get married or have kids, so i too am now just a product of the modern society.


the moral of the story is DONT JUST BLAME YOUR MOM. EVERY FEMALE HIPPIE NEEDS A MALE HIPPIE TO RUIN THE WORLD

UnderscoreX
Jan 3, 2008, 09:43 PM
Asian women are popular on the internet because it's most nerd's fantasy to find a girl who gets turned on when she sees your 100% game file on Final Fantasy. And Japanese girls are stereotyped as being into games. They're so kawaiiii.

ShinMaruku
Jan 3, 2008, 10:33 PM
Any group of women is fair game to me. Add more diversity to my family make my descendants more varied, that's what they been doing for Generations. Bring the Asians if you want, add more of that,Bring the Indians. More mixing show fools.

Angelo
Jan 4, 2008, 12:27 AM
On 2008-01-03 18:08, BlaizeYES wrote: DONT JUST BLAME YOUR MOM. EVERY FEMALE HIPPIE NEEDS A MALE HIPPIE TO RUIN THE WORLD



Sounds good. I'll go with that and leave this topic on that note.

Alisha
Jan 4, 2008, 01:56 AM
WOW im pretty sure me and angelo could never be friends. especially since the idea that 2 feamles can procreate without the need for a male excites me http://www.pso-world.com/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_eek.gif

BlaizeYES
Jan 4, 2008, 07:05 AM
On 2008-01-03 18:43, UnderscoreX wrote:
Asian women are popular on the internet because it's most nerd's fantasy to find a girl who gets turned on when she sees your 100% game file on Final Fantasy.




its not a fantasy, its a reality, and not just with asian women. don't you remember what would happen to you back in the days when pokemon first came out and you caught them all? BIG MAN ON CAMPUS

Shiro_Ryuu
Jan 5, 2008, 11:25 PM
Well, I don't think ALL Asian girls are into nerdy guys. The Japanese girls that I met in Japan are not into otakus and such. Like this one Japanese exchange student that I met, she's not into gaming or anime much, but I'm ok with girls like that, as long as they accept me for who I am. I myself am not an otaku, and I'm a pretty physically fit guy who does martial arts and such, which is kind of how some of those girls got into me.

Dragwind
Jan 7, 2008, 10:32 PM
I've always thought that Asian women have an amazing natural beauty since I was about 13 more or less. I'm not obsessed with them or anything, but I do think they are gorgeous. I'd vastly prefer an Asian woman over a ditzy, preppy, blonde bimbo who wears a pound of makeup. Just my two mesetas.

Monochrome
Jan 9, 2008, 09:39 PM
Yeah, I liked the bimbo-blonde motif until I was 19 or so and began working at a video store with mostly asian girls. That might have had something to do with it. Asian women = Red Item Box

Shadowpawn
Jan 9, 2008, 09:44 PM
On 2008-01-09 18:39, Monochrome wrote:
Yeah, I liked the bimbo-blonde motif until I was 19 or so and began working at a video store with mostly asian girls. That might have had something to do with it. Asian women = Red Item Box



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