Rappyd00d
Feb 26, 2008, 07:57 AM
Yeah, so I just want to let you guys know:
I am in absolutely NO way emo or any of that garbage, but I feel that I must vent yet again on the current circumstances, hopefully earning myself some pity or relation or something.
Alright, so apparently to my mother, I am a problem child. I was miserably sick one week and she was reluctant to keep me home. I was OK with that, it's easy to fake these things. The following week, I forgot to turn in the absence note, but that's OK, my school lets you have around a week of unexcused absences. I've also yet to pay school fees, which I see no big deal in as I have until the end of the year to do. The only problem being that my grandmother wrote a check for the amount in October for me to send in. I have kept it on top of my dresser until now, and it's just disappeared. I have no idea where it went, which is very much a problem. But now, today, I've missed the bus (on accident, mind you) and I suppose that was just the final straw. She works around the same time I go to school, so there's no ride for me today. I called her to let her know I had missed it and she explodes. (Because, you know, I could have just NOT called her at all and been dishonest and lied and acted like I'd gone to school until she got home at 8 but whatever.)
I don't understand why, but she thinks I'm dishonest in every thing that I do. I told her I was downstairs the whole time waiting on it and I never heard or saw it coming, and apparently that was a lie. I was obviously doing something upstairs when I missed it, doing something distracting that made me miss it. Also apparent is the fact that the bus no longer honks the horn when I don't emerge from my home, because if it did, I would be at school, according to her. So now, I'm either just supposed to LAY IN MY FUCKING BED ALL DAY or clean until I find the check, and when mother gets home my ass is most likely fucked. I've looked for the check, and I've decided I would just clean the house in the process. It's a good way to vent some anger, I suppose. I'm not even supposed to be on my computer or games, because I must have "deliberately missed the bus because she was gone" so I can't do anything. Yeah.
I mean, I guess I just don't understand her whole attitude ever since my stepfather got deported.
(an entirely different thread, written two and a half years ago: http://www.pso-world.com/viewtopic.php?topic=113500&forum=11)
Yes, I can understand she's been under a lot of stress lately, anybody would. She's struggling to pay for a house thats monthly payment is about $1,200 along with appliance fees and my diabetes supplies (which, for some odd-fuck reason insurance will not cover >_>). It's very understandable. But, if you're so tight on money, why buy me a $400 360 (along with Rock Band, another $170) for Christmas and then complain to me that you have no money? It was nice and all, and I love them, but it doesn't sound like the priorities are all too straight here. Not to mention that she still buys jewelry and clothes all the time.
She's trying to file out divorce papers, which is fine by me. I love the man, but he's in Jamaica currently and there's nothing else that can be done. That's just the way it is. But, she's also been dating around, and...It doesn't seem all too right to me. I've met about 7 different men (all of whom she's "dating") during the course of this whole endeavor, and only one is recurring. I don't know any psychology, but I'm sure introducing a bunch of strange people into you and your son's home to have them knock up his mom and then have them never heard from again is probably a little joggling to a child. I'm sure there's countless others, because now all she does is stay on the computer (IMing or on a DATING WEBSITE) or on the phone with somebody I've never met. If even the slightest disturbance were to come her way from me for any reason during either a phone call, a webcam session, or a TV show (Hey, mom, the heater's on high downstairs about 4 feet away from the couch, isn't that a concern?), it's always an evil look and "YOU LITTLE SHIT GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE I DID IT ON PURPOSE"
Well, maybe not that mean, but you get the point. I'm not allowed to ask questions or do anything anymore, I guess, because all she wants to do is chat online with fucking men she'll date once and never see again or watch fucking reality all day. I'm just a nuisance in her schedule.
It's always hit or miss with her as well. Once, upon being picked up from a weekend LAN party at my friends' house, we were all happy and talking about issues on the radio. It was nice. She was actually not pissy for once. Then, once we got home, BAM. "GOD DAMN IT TAKE OUT THIS TRASH I HATE IT WHEN YOU LEAVE EMPTY BOXES BESIDE THE FUCKING TRASH CAN ARGH YOU MAKE ME SO MAD"
It never used to be like this. When I was younger, we were happy and this was never an issue. Hell, she never used to curse in front of my face, even at an older age. But now, she does it freely and openly, which makes me quite uncomfortable.
I really don't know what to do. My life has been going down the shit hole ever since the deportation, and my mother's not making it much better. I can't interact with her anymore without her hate. Whenever I try to discuss anything with her, I never get the time of day or it's always "I DON'T CARE ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS YOU HAVE NO PROBLEMS DO CHORES AND GOOD GRADES ALL I CARE ABOUT"
I think she's definitely got some anger problems...I don't know whether this has to do with her irregular periods (or something like that), or if it's some mental condition. I'd really like to know, because sometimes, she gets a little scary. I remember a time she had one of her boyfriends around (this is the recurring one, he's actually pretty cool), and took me upstairs to her room while he was downstairs because I had done something (most likely completely harmless) to upset her. We got in a humongpous argument as she proceeded to tell me that I was scum and that I was nothing but a thorn in her side. This is where it gets weird. She proceeds to get so angry that she starts smacking me and getting me in a fucking HEADLOCK. (granted, none of this hurts or is difficult to get out of; I'm 16, she's nearing 37. Do the math.) When she lets go, I'm damn near in tears and asking her what the fuck she's doing.
"Oh, shut up, I can't hurt you, I'm almost 40 fucking years old"
THAT'S NOT THE GOD DAMN POINT. She had me in a FUCKING HEADLOCK. That is not normal parental behavior, I don't care what you did.
I don't want to move in with my dad because I like my house and care for my mother. But God damn. It's like if I were to kill myself she wouldn't care. I don't know what I've done for her to take out all this anger on me, but I've put up with it for almost three fucking years without a word and it's definitely taking it's toll.
I really hope this doesn't sound too much like just teenage angst or whining or any of that shit. I'd like to think myself above that...
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I am in absolutely NO way emo or any of that garbage, but I feel that I must vent yet again on the current circumstances, hopefully earning myself some pity or relation or something.
Alright, so apparently to my mother, I am a problem child. I was miserably sick one week and she was reluctant to keep me home. I was OK with that, it's easy to fake these things. The following week, I forgot to turn in the absence note, but that's OK, my school lets you have around a week of unexcused absences. I've also yet to pay school fees, which I see no big deal in as I have until the end of the year to do. The only problem being that my grandmother wrote a check for the amount in October for me to send in. I have kept it on top of my dresser until now, and it's just disappeared. I have no idea where it went, which is very much a problem. But now, today, I've missed the bus (on accident, mind you) and I suppose that was just the final straw. She works around the same time I go to school, so there's no ride for me today. I called her to let her know I had missed it and she explodes. (Because, you know, I could have just NOT called her at all and been dishonest and lied and acted like I'd gone to school until she got home at 8 but whatever.)
I don't understand why, but she thinks I'm dishonest in every thing that I do. I told her I was downstairs the whole time waiting on it and I never heard or saw it coming, and apparently that was a lie. I was obviously doing something upstairs when I missed it, doing something distracting that made me miss it. Also apparent is the fact that the bus no longer honks the horn when I don't emerge from my home, because if it did, I would be at school, according to her. So now, I'm either just supposed to LAY IN MY FUCKING BED ALL DAY or clean until I find the check, and when mother gets home my ass is most likely fucked. I've looked for the check, and I've decided I would just clean the house in the process. It's a good way to vent some anger, I suppose. I'm not even supposed to be on my computer or games, because I must have "deliberately missed the bus because she was gone" so I can't do anything. Yeah.
I mean, I guess I just don't understand her whole attitude ever since my stepfather got deported.
(an entirely different thread, written two and a half years ago: http://www.pso-world.com/viewtopic.php?topic=113500&forum=11)
Yes, I can understand she's been under a lot of stress lately, anybody would. She's struggling to pay for a house thats monthly payment is about $1,200 along with appliance fees and my diabetes supplies (which, for some odd-fuck reason insurance will not cover >_>). It's very understandable. But, if you're so tight on money, why buy me a $400 360 (along with Rock Band, another $170) for Christmas and then complain to me that you have no money? It was nice and all, and I love them, but it doesn't sound like the priorities are all too straight here. Not to mention that she still buys jewelry and clothes all the time.
She's trying to file out divorce papers, which is fine by me. I love the man, but he's in Jamaica currently and there's nothing else that can be done. That's just the way it is. But, she's also been dating around, and...It doesn't seem all too right to me. I've met about 7 different men (all of whom she's "dating") during the course of this whole endeavor, and only one is recurring. I don't know any psychology, but I'm sure introducing a bunch of strange people into you and your son's home to have them knock up his mom and then have them never heard from again is probably a little joggling to a child. I'm sure there's countless others, because now all she does is stay on the computer (IMing or on a DATING WEBSITE) or on the phone with somebody I've never met. If even the slightest disturbance were to come her way from me for any reason during either a phone call, a webcam session, or a TV show (Hey, mom, the heater's on high downstairs about 4 feet away from the couch, isn't that a concern?), it's always an evil look and "YOU LITTLE SHIT GET THE FUCK OUT OF HERE I DID IT ON PURPOSE"
Well, maybe not that mean, but you get the point. I'm not allowed to ask questions or do anything anymore, I guess, because all she wants to do is chat online with fucking men she'll date once and never see again or watch fucking reality all day. I'm just a nuisance in her schedule.
It's always hit or miss with her as well. Once, upon being picked up from a weekend LAN party at my friends' house, we were all happy and talking about issues on the radio. It was nice. She was actually not pissy for once. Then, once we got home, BAM. "GOD DAMN IT TAKE OUT THIS TRASH I HATE IT WHEN YOU LEAVE EMPTY BOXES BESIDE THE FUCKING TRASH CAN ARGH YOU MAKE ME SO MAD"
It never used to be like this. When I was younger, we were happy and this was never an issue. Hell, she never used to curse in front of my face, even at an older age. But now, she does it freely and openly, which makes me quite uncomfortable.
I really don't know what to do. My life has been going down the shit hole ever since the deportation, and my mother's not making it much better. I can't interact with her anymore without her hate. Whenever I try to discuss anything with her, I never get the time of day or it's always "I DON'T CARE ABOUT YOUR PROBLEMS YOU HAVE NO PROBLEMS DO CHORES AND GOOD GRADES ALL I CARE ABOUT"
I think she's definitely got some anger problems...I don't know whether this has to do with her irregular periods (or something like that), or if it's some mental condition. I'd really like to know, because sometimes, she gets a little scary. I remember a time she had one of her boyfriends around (this is the recurring one, he's actually pretty cool), and took me upstairs to her room while he was downstairs because I had done something (most likely completely harmless) to upset her. We got in a humongpous argument as she proceeded to tell me that I was scum and that I was nothing but a thorn in her side. This is where it gets weird. She proceeds to get so angry that she starts smacking me and getting me in a fucking HEADLOCK. (granted, none of this hurts or is difficult to get out of; I'm 16, she's nearing 37. Do the math.) When she lets go, I'm damn near in tears and asking her what the fuck she's doing.
"Oh, shut up, I can't hurt you, I'm almost 40 fucking years old"
THAT'S NOT THE GOD DAMN POINT. She had me in a FUCKING HEADLOCK. That is not normal parental behavior, I don't care what you did.
I don't want to move in with my dad because I like my house and care for my mother. But God damn. It's like if I were to kill myself she wouldn't care. I don't know what I've done for her to take out all this anger on me, but I've put up with it for almost three fucking years without a word and it's definitely taking it's toll.
I really hope this doesn't sound too much like just teenage angst or whining or any of that shit. I'd like to think myself above that...
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