I am tired and hungry

[navci]

See. This morning my brother skipped class, and before I left for work, I left him a nice little note, asking him to talk to the manager about our leaks, find us an optometrist since we are needing to see one desperately, and well, cook me dinner. (I work till 18 today).

Well. Guess what.
I went home, and no dinner. No optometrist, no clean bathroom (well, I didn't say a word about it, but well I been telling him to do it. And usually the rule is, if we have a house guest (in this case, it's Mixfortune), we wash bathroom after person left. No report about leaking. So basically nothing done. When I was complaining about it he said something about "you sound like I got nothing to do".

Hm. Er. Ya? You just skipped school. What are you so busy doing? http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_razz.gif Especially after I worked a long day ... honestly. What the fuck did you do that is so important that you are going to ignore a horrible leak? It is not like it is MY sink, you use it too and if it floods, it is going to affect YOU too. He keep saying how he shouldn't be helping ME do stuff. Especially after I said I was going to move out, but a couple things changed and I am not moving out apparently and now he sounds like this is my fault and all the shit?

Gah. I am so pissed. I hate to come home and having all these errands to do after work when someone else is sitting on his ass and sleeps.

[Sagasu]

So..

When are you going to kick him out of your home? Or at least let him fend for himself for a week or two to make sure hes grateful for what he's given?

[Dhylec]

>.< poor navi, having a bro that is helpful as nail in your eye
give him a bishoujo kick to his fave cheek to feel better =D

[navci]

On 2004-09-07 20:28, Sagasu wrote:
So..

When are you going to kick him out of your home? Or at least let him fend for himself for a week or two to make sure hes grateful for what he's given?



I am going to ignore him for a little while cuz I will be working long hours for the next few days. So. Ya. I can't kick him out of the house, but suprisingly, he can kick ME out. Despite of the fact that I am the one who is working. :/

[Sagasu]

On 2004-09-07 20:32, navinator wrote:

I am going to ignore him for a little while cuz I will be working long hours for the next few days. So. Ya. I can't kick him out of the house, but suprisingly, he can kick ME out. Despite of the fact that I am the one who is working. :/



http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_eek.gif

Thats a screwed set up. How did things turn out this way?

[Mixfortune]

Sagasu: Has to do with the parents, if I'm not mistaken.

Having been there for a little over half a week, I can agree that your brother doesn't do too much around the house at all. While I could sort of help where I could, it is apparent that you do the vast majority of the cleaning and meal preparation... it's quite inconsiderate of him not to take care of a number of relatively smaller tasks at least every once in a while, but no effort was made on his part.

I would try and find out what he exactly found to be of such greater importance, since he did skip school today and hasn't done much of anything but play Doom 3 and stick in his room for the majority of the time I was there.

I'm sorry he has to be as such, along with the rest of your situation.

[Scejntjynahl]

When you have a chance to move Navi, take it, leave them good for nothing people behind you. And never look back.

[RicoRoyal]

On 2004-09-08 10:06, Scejntjynahl wrote:
When you have a chance to move Navi, take it, leave them good for nothing people behind you. And never look back.



http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_yes.gif

If possible (according to your other post, it is not), kick your brother the fuck out of your house. You are the one working to keep the both of you alive and well, and still he does nothing. I tolerate alot of things in life, but if there is one thing that I demand of people, it is appreciation where appreciation is due. Your brother does not a appreaciate a damn thing you do for him, and as such, deserves no mercy in return. Kick the little fucker out on the streets for a day (preferably two), and he'll either come crawling back, or learn to survive on his own and get out of your hair. YOU DON'T OWE ANYONE ANYTHING. We all have friends, family, acquantences, and enemies in life - all of them come right after one thing: ourselves. Look out for numero uno before having to deal with any other dickhead numeros.

I might add one more thing. The last thing you want to do with a teenager in order to solve a problem is ignore them. Ignoring your brother (rather than actually dealing with him) will result in further misappreaciation. Sooner than later, it will lead to him believing he is some sort of poor wittle victim of family abuse and neglect. Kids these days don't learn the easy way anymore - you gotta give 'em a kick in the nuts to get em jumpstarted http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_biggrin.gif. Good luck with that.

[anwserman]

Navi,

PM me your address. I want to mail you something I know will cheer you up. (I'm not joking either! http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_wacko.gif)

Seriously, I'm not joking! http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_yes.gif

[navci]

On 2004-09-08 11:23, anwserman wrote:
Navi,

PM me your address. I want to mail you something I know will cheer you up. (I'm not joking either! http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_wacko.gif)

Seriously, I'm not joking! http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_yes.gif



I don't trust you anymore. http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_frown.gif

@Rico: Thanks for the advice. Thing is, this is not the first thread I try to vent about him. I have kinda exhausted all the options with him. As is, I am just tired and want to pretend that I don't know this guy. I am working, but I am not supporting both of us yet. I only contribute, hence, I still don't get to kick him out. http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_razz.gif

[Evil_Althena8]

On 2004-09-08 11:23, anwserman wrote:
Navi,

PM me your address. I want to mail you something I know will cheer you up. (I'm not joking either! http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_wacko.gif)

Seriously, I'm not joking! http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_yes.gif



a rotting pig's head?

just kidding http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_razz.gif

Navi, you need to stand up for what you believe in and tell the dude to respect your wishes and to stop being a lazy ass.





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