Tired and pissed [Archive]

navci

Sep 9, 2004, 10:28 AM

I am SO FUCKING PISSED!

Here is the story.
A while ago, possibly before we moved, even, we got two pairs of glasses. One mine, one bro's. Apparently the store we did the glasses in, messed up the prescription and hence the new prescription felt weird and we needed to get them re-done. So I wanted to go to an optometrist and get the prescription, get those lens changed and get some new contact lens also.

Since the move and the situation about having to go home and find job and shit. I actually never gotten the chance to find a new optometrist and go get that done. But recently the lens in my right eye chipped, and I desperately need to get new lens. Now. I have found some optometrist near where I work, and I was thinking of doing that. When I mentioned my plans, bri objected and said "what about me?" and all that sort of stuff, so I changed the plans over and over again until he said something like "I will go book one today, I know one right by my school and I can make an appointment". So before he left (after waking me up from my sleep) I reminded him to make the appointment. Do you know what he said?

Since I am going home in October anyway I think I am just going to get that when I am back.

While that is all great and good.

1. STOP CHANGING THE FUCKING PLANS WITHOUT TELLING ME! The chipped lens has been bothering my eyes and my original glasses are all shitty and incorrect and stuff. I REALLY needed to get that fixed. If you don't care about yourself, fine. Just let the one who need it get it.

2. The new glasses costed about 200 bucks (each), I don't know why he keep refusing to call the place and let them known prescription is wrong. I am working now and my hours are really restricting what I can do. When I get off work everything is closed, and I don't get the luxuary to make phone calls at work. WHY CAN'T HE MAKE A FUCKING PHONE CALL? As is, it has been a little while since we got the glasses, if we don't get that fixed soon, we might not be able to get those lens exchanged and hence, spent a good amount of money for nothing. Apparently he is just content to throw away 500 bucks and get nothing out of it. (I mean, getting new glasses and not wearing them forever is about the same as just throwing the money away, no?)

3. QUIT WAKING ME UP IN THE MORNING! Apparently he is the only who require sleep in thise house. While he get to nap after he come home from school, I work all day. I sleep at night, he is playing video games and making noises. He announces his waking up to the world by banging on everything. I really don't mind living in the living room, but for fuck's sake let me sleep! I have been tired and exhausted for the past few days partly because of this. I never get enough sleep. At all. I have a feeling that he doesn't think I even need the energy for the job since it is such a "low" job and shitty and crappy. I should just go in and slack off and come back bragging about it. Guess what, fucker, this is not what working is like.

I am just in general very pissed about not able to get sleep, getting my fucking plans changed around all the time because he is a bastard. (honestly tho, the reason I even care about he need to get the lens changed is cuz I dont want to waste the money we put in for the glasses). Anyway, I am getting my eyes checked today, whether he fucking like it or not. He is ridiculous. And guess what he likes to say to me, "If it was war time you are going to die first." I don't even know where that come from.

Okay, Rant is done. I need to get this out of the way and forget about it. ... except I am still sleepy. http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_frown.gif
Hey, guess what, I am getting cold sores again, I wonder what is causing it? [/sacarsm]

[ This Message was edited by: navinator on 2004-09-09 08:30 ]

Scejntjynahl

Sep 9, 2004, 10:37 AM

I hope your Bro finds a woman that he falls in love with, and she beats the crap out him and makes him be the homemaker >=)

Damn, as a human being he is lacking, I get more compassion out of my goldfish than him.

Firocket1690

Sep 9, 2004, 11:07 AM

... and yet navi has the sanity to stay up late on irc http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_wacko.gif

.. if i recall, he's yout ]older brother ? go bug him to get a job. Not sure about vancouver working age, but im allwed to get a job as of now, and im assuming both of you are older =o

oh and if you want to coverve money, go buy a different model of glasses. Mine were $120 -.-

hm,youre probably going to read this sometime soon while you're still at work. Have fun!

*... is on school's mac g4*

navci

Sep 9, 2004, 11:18 AM

Firo. Bro is younger. He is 20 now.
Younger bros are always spoiled, and always right. http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_razz.gif

Firocket1690

Sep 9, 2004, 11:20 AM

I'm fifteen and im a ben&jerry biotch
had the job since last year =o

navci

Sep 9, 2004, 11:21 AM

On 2004-09-09 09:20, Firocket1690 wrote:
I'm fifteen and im a ben&jerry biotch
had the job since last year =o

It is not about age. It never is.
He is just a lazy bastard.

Firocket1690

Sep 9, 2004, 11:22 AM

On 2004-09-09 09:21, navinator wrote:

On 2004-09-09 09:20, Firocket1690 wrote:
I'm fifteen and im a ben&jerry biotch
had the job since last year =o

It is not about age. It never is.
He is just a lazy bastard.

... that can't be helped http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_disapprove.gif

RicoRoyal

Sep 9, 2004, 11:39 AM

On 2004-09-09 09:18, navinator wrote:
Firo. Bro is younger. He is 20 now.
Younger bros are always spoiled, and always right. http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_razz.gif

20?! http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_eek.gif No no no no NO! I said this before, and I know you still can't do it cause it's not entirely your house, but oh my god, that fucker needs to go! 20! Jesus of shit! It's common for people in my family to be working like fucking slaves at the age of 15, fending for ourselves, and if not that, then at least helping out as much as humanly possible! Holy hell... I don't even know your bro, and already I want to beat the shit out of him in real life. From the way you described your brother, I figured he was like 12 or something! How can someone be 20 and still be so worthless as a living, breathing part of human society? It boggles the mind http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_dead.gif. Your brother sounds like my everday run-of-the-mill-you-deserve-to-get-the-shit-beat-out-of-you-for-being-someone-worthy-of-my-hate parasite of humanity!

Since you can't kick him out, you're going to need to do something drastic to fix this problem that just seems to be getting worse with every passing day. THROW A FIT. I'm not just talking about the sissy little crying fits... I'm talking yell-so-loud-the-cops-will-have-to-come-your-house fit! You can't scare the shit out of the "kid" by throwing him out of house... so you're gonna need to scare the shit out him by fucking exploding in his face. Tell him every damn thing you've ever found wrong with him and shove it in his face till he feels like shit! While you're at it... ask him what in the fuck he did that whole day you were gone at work while he ditched school (sounds suspicious as hell). He might have not gone for various reasons, but there are two that stick out in my mind (I have a parental sixth sense)

1. He's on drugs (might explain the severe lazyness)
2. He has made some real enemies at school and is trying to avoid getting the fucking life beat out of him

Option two is alot more common that you might think, especially for someone his age. If you care for him (I said care, which does not imply you can't also hate him), you will take upon yourself to snoop around and find out what the hell the real deal is with your bro. YOU HAVE TO STAND UP FOR YOURSELF!!! http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_mad.gif I wish you the best of luck. Be pissed, but in a non-life-threatening way http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_wacko.gif. You can doooo it.

navci

Sep 9, 2004, 11:53 AM

But I know exactly what he did.
He slept.

I dunno. I have so little energy right now thinking about yelling makes me tired.
Hehe

I will think of something. Yelling doesn't work. I tried. It doesn't work.

Rainbowlemon

Sep 9, 2004, 12:08 PM

No worries Navi, the least you can do is try and catch up on some sleep. As you said yourself, sometimes things can become much clearer after sleep http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_smile.gif I really hope your problem gets sorted, it sounds like quite a pickle - I think if it were me in the same situation with my brother, and yelling didn't work, I would just be genuinely upset in front of him. If he's anywhere half-decent, he would ask what's wrong, and well...you get the rest.

For now, treat yourself to a happy cookie on my behalf http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/anime1.gif

... http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/heartcookie.gif

Heh, you can't enjoy it if I never gave you one http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/blush.gif

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Dhylec

Sep 9, 2004, 12:22 PM

nav, beat him with words
if not then leave a boot-print on his other cheek.. no wait, high heels ain't too bad either
show the lazy freeloader, who's the boss around the house now..

RicoRoyal

Sep 9, 2004, 12:24 PM

Shadowpawn

Sep 9, 2004, 12:47 PM

On 2004-09-09 10:24, RicoRoyal wrote:

On 2004-09-09 10:22, Dhylec wrote:
nav, beat him with words
if not then leave a boot-print on his other cheek.. no wait, high heels ain't too bad either
show the lazy freeloader, who's the boss around the house now..

See? When put that way, it doesn't sound so difficult, now then does it? You can doooo it.

What he said...just do it.

Rainbowlemon

Sep 9, 2004, 12:51 PM

On 2004-09-09 10:22, Dhylec wrote:
nav, beat him with words
if not then leave a boot-print on his other cheek.. no wait, high heels ain't too bad either
show the lazy freeloader, who's the boss around the house now..

On 2004-09-09 09:53, navinator wrote:
Yelling doesn't work. I tried. It doesn't work.

....

I still say try to make him feel guilty for being such a bum. There are few people that can evade true guilt, and usually those people are too young to understand the concept of it.

Please don't lash out at him navi...http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_frown.gif Nobody likes to take orders from someone who is annoying them, especially if, in their eyes, they don't actually have to...

navci

Sep 9, 2004, 01:28 PM

On 2004-09-09 10:51, Antimony wrote:

I still say try to make him feel guilty for being such a bum. There are few people that can evade true guilt, and usually those people are too young to understand the concept of it.

Let me tell you this. Our mother is a master of guilt-trip. But bro is immune to it and both of us has a general dislike for guilt-trips.

So. No. It won't work.
On better news, I am getting my eyes checked today!

Sep 9, 2004, 05:59 PM

On 2004-09-09 09:18, navinator wrote:
Younger bros are always spoiled, and always right. http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_razz.gif

Ow. That hurts http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_cry.gif http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_wacko.gif

Anyways, your brother is being really stubborn about it. I don't get it =/

Although, if he is going home in October, then he really can't get a job, can he? http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_frown.gif

navci

Sep 9, 2004, 10:05 PM

On 2004-09-09 15:59, SUPAH_CHAO wrote:

Although, if he is going home in October, then he really can't get a job, can he? http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_frown.gif

He is going for vacation.

Firocket1690

Sep 10, 2004, 11:14 AM

On 2004-09-09 20:05, navinator wrote:

On 2004-09-09 15:59, SUPAH_CHAO wrote:

Although, if he is going home in October, then he really can't get a job, can he? http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_frown.gif

He is going for vacation.

Cancel that, drag him to the nearestt Ben& Jerry's and force a job on his ass. If he doesnt show up for work, it'll scratch his resume and he'll have trouble finsing a job in he future. http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_evil.gif

Shadowpawn

Sep 10, 2004, 02:10 PM

On 2004-09-09 11:28, navinator wrote:
So. No. It won't work.
On better news, I am getting my eyes checked today!

Did you get your eyes checked?

navci

Sep 10, 2004, 06:43 PM

On 2004-09-10 12:10, Shadowpawn wrote:

On 2004-09-09 11:28, navinator wrote:
So. No. It won't work.
On better news, I am getting my eyes checked today!

Did you get your eyes checked?

Ya. Going back next week to get pupil dilated and checking lens fitting. These lens have been giving my eyes some serious ass problems though.

Shadowpawn

Sep 10, 2004, 07:21 PM

That's good, man what's with you brother. He doesn't want to find a job or something, what does his parents think of this? He doesn't know how good he has it, some ppl would kill (like me) to find a job...

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navci

Sep 10, 2004, 07:39 PM

On 2004-09-10 17:21, Shadowpawn wrote:
That's good, man what's with you brother. He doesn't want to find a job or something, what does his parents think of this? He doesn't know how good he has it, some ppl would kill (like me) to find a job...

My parents don't have a problem with it. Asian parents. They always think you shouldn't work until you're out of school, which is usually too late. :/

If you're in the Vancouver area, our store is hiring more people. Hehe

Shadowpawn

Sep 10, 2004, 07:43 PM

On 2004-09-10 17:39, navinator wrote:

On 2004-09-10 17:21, Shadowpawn wrote:
That's good, man what's with you brother. He doesn't want to find a job or something, what does his parents think of this? He doesn't know how good he has it, some ppl would kill (like me) to find a job...

My parents don't have a problem with it. Asian parents. They always think you shouldn't work until you're out of school, which is usually too late. :/

If you're in the Vancouver area, our store is hiring more people. Hehe

Nope...I'm in the US (with Bush aka Mr. "Weapons of Mass Destruction.") Hmmm...suck that your parents don't care, they should really get on him.

[ This Message was edited by: Shadowpawn on 2004-09-10 17:43 ]