Girl Problems

[Skuda]

yep. Kuda's having girl problems again.

except, this time, it's the exact opposite...http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_lol.gif

before, when I really, really, really wanted a girlfriend. I was rolling snake eyes. seemed like no girl on the face of this planet (or at least in my city) would want to date me.

so, I left for japan. I got an E-mail from my Friend Darrin telling me that he knows three girls that would kill to go out with me. he said they were too shy and saying things like "I'm not good enough for Scott" or "He would never date a girl like me :( "

My friend Zel, also said he knows someone who wants to go out with me. (I had a crush on her)

Also, my from what I got from my friend Steph (and from what Zel said to confirm my assumtion) she wants to date me too.

and since I've come to Japan, I've been thinking about the whole relationship thing, and how I might not be ready and how it wouldn't make a difference to me now if I got a grilfriend or not... so... what the hell?

I have no clue what to do... (Steph wants to break up with her current boyfriend to go out with me too...)

so now, instead of being girl-less, I'm swamped.

just goes to show extremes on both end of the spectrum suck.

[Aredhel]

Awwww....

http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_razz.gif

You don't love any of these girls, though - so where's the dilemma? http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_wacko.gif

[Scejntjynahl]

That is only because your far away, and unantainable... wait till you get back to the states and take it from there. Human nature creates a desire to want what we cant have. So hang tight, and anyways who is to say you wont find someone in Japan?

Also, not a very good a idea to date anyone who recently ended a relationship... that person needs sometime alone (or would you risk been the rebound companion... most times it doesnt last)

So just enjoy your time right now, and keep your options open =D

[Daikarin]

On 2004-09-20 07:22, Aredhel wrote:

You don't love any of these girls, though - so where's the dilemma? http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_wacko.gif



Hah! Wisest phrase I've heard in months. http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_yes.gif

[navci]

On 2004-09-20 07:42, Scejntjynahl wrote:
That is only because your far away, and unantainable... wait till you get back to the states and take it from there. Human nature creates a desire to want what we cant have. So hang tight, and anyways who is to say you wont find someone in Japan?



Sen is so wise. http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_smile.gif
And my opinion exactly.

And now, for a joke.
"Kuda has been to Japan! He is so cool now! I wanna date him!"

That was kinda my first reaction to the first paragraph. >_>

[Armok]

Want my advice go for the ulgiest.

that way if it turns out all lies you can only move up.

[Zelutos]

On 2004-09-20 10:16, navinator wrote:


On 2004-09-20 07:42, Scejntjynahl wrote:
That is only because your far away, and unantainable... wait till you get back to the states and take it from there. Human nature creates a desire to want what we cant have. So hang tight, and anyways who is to say you wont find someone in Japan?



Sen is so wise. http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_smile.gif
And my opinion exactly.

And now, for a joke.
"Kuda has been to Japan! He is so cool now! I wanna date him!"

That was kinda my first reaction to the first paragraph. >_>




Lol, i think i'm starting to fall in love with Kuda since he left http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_razz.gif naw, just kidding. i miss him alot tho ><;;

[Shadowpawn]

On 2004-09-20 11:25, Armok wrote:
Want my advice go for the ulgiest.

that way if it turns out all lies you can only move up.


It's what the best of us do... U.U

[Evergea]

so, I left for japan. I got an E-mail from my Friend Darrin telling me that he knows three girls that would kill to go out with me. he said they were too shy and saying things like "I'm not good enough for Scott" or "He would never date a girl like me :( "


And did these girls like you before you went to Japan? Or was it the fact they realized they liked you after you left?

The whole sentimental, I miss you, etc drivel. If a person only realizes something until after a major event occurs, they really aren't worth the time.

Yes, it sounds stuck up, but you need to choose people carefully. Hormones like to get into the works far too much.

[Skuda]

On 2004-09-21 04:39, Evergea wrote:


so, I left for japan. I got an E-mail from my Friend Darrin telling me that he knows three girls that would kill to go out with me. he said they were too shy and saying things like "I'm not good enough for Scott" or "He would never date a girl like me :( "


And did these girls like you before you went to Japan? Or was it the fact they realized they liked you after you left?

The whole sentimental, I miss you, etc drivel. If a person only realizes something until after a major event occurs, they really aren't worth the time.

Yes, it sounds stuck up, but you need to choose people carefully. Hormones like to get into the works far too much.



actually, a good majority of there girls liked me before I left (says some of my freinds anyway)

I just don't want to make it look like there competing for me or somthing, because in a competition, many will play, one will win... and I don't want anyone getting hurt.

[Scejntjynahl]

On 2004-09-21 05:01, Scott_Kuda wrote:
actually, a good majority of there girls liked me before I left (says some of my freinds anyway)

I just don't want to make it look like there competing for me or somthing, because in a competition, many will play, one will win... and I don't want anyone getting hurt.



Then you are dealing with hearsay, not primary source of information. So there is a chance that none of its true.

But in reality it sounds like you are not in the slightest interested in any of them, so dont give it a second thought and enjoy your time in Japan. Many of us wished we could travel abroad and enjoy new cultures. So immerse yourself in there, take pictures, write a journal, and deal with what is in hand not hypothetical situations. Ganbate Kudasai http://www.pso-world.com/psoworld/images/phpbb/icons/smiles/icon_biggrin.gif

[Sharkyland]

Eh, I think Sen's advice is good though I don't have much to say. I haven't dated, I haven't gone out with a girl, and I didn't notice someone had a crush on me.

I just currently want to set myself straight a bit (like create a foundation, like get a stable job current one I have now is in the balance -_-, then I'd go look for a girl).

[Evergea]

On 2004-09-21 07:33, Scejntjynahl wrote:

Then you are dealing with hearsay, not primary source of information. So there is a chance that none of its true.


Beat me to it.

What this guy said, ganbatte kudasai. Besides, you'll probably find a girl in Japan (tha'd be my dream).

[Guile]

Try something with each, which ever you like stick with.

[opaopajr]

"no risky, no frisky" - wisdom from a disc jockey

besides, no sense trying a long distance thing while in japan. you're young, go have fun.