I use the word "love" in serious and non-serious situations. Often times I will say it to my friends in a silly manner (I love you Kylie :3), and people seem to think that I'm degrading the word and its meaning by doing that...
...no. Just because I say "I love you" to all my friends doesn't mean I mean it any less than I would if I were saying it to my mom or dad. It doesn't mean it's just a term I throw around meaninglessly. The word itself was already meaningless, it's the concept that matters. With the help of dictionary.com, love is:
2. a feeling of warm personal attachment or deep affection, as for a parent, child, or friend.
Warm personal attachment and deep affection, to me, are things that can be shared between several people. Romantic desire isn't, but it's not like I romantically desire Kylie (sorry) and everyone else who I've ever said it to.
I had a friend who once said to me, 'I love you. And I don't toss that term around like you do.'
That really bothered me--I don't mean any harm by saying it to the people who I love.
The point is, when do you use it? When do you think it should be used? What's it mean to you?
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