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    Default Me and my gf don't know what to talk about.

    Well me and my girlfriend don't know what to talk about really. Me and her aren't very talkitive people to begin with. I'm usually really quiet and don't talk much when talking to people. It's not that I'm bored, just my mind doesn't have anything new to really talk about. Does anyone have any suggestions that could help me and her?

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    You go through phases where it seems like you aren't talking much.
    Some get out of it, and sometimes it means the end of your relationship. you cant just designate what you're gunna talk about on a certain day. That's silly. I'm not sure if there's any advice that can help you. This is something you and her have to figure out. Find some new tail.
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    If you two have similar hobbies you can start there and expand. It's probably just a phase so don't worry about it. Talking helps. Ask her about her day start with something simple to talk about.
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    Quote Originally Posted by EphekZ View Post
    you cant just designate what you're gunna talk about on a certain day. That's silly.
    Quote Originally Posted by Noblewine View Post
    If you two have similar hobbies you can start there and expand...

    Ask her about her day start with something simple to talk about.
    Listen to these fine young gentlemen.

    Once you get there: don't rush to finish a discussion, enjoy it while you can and expand on it. :3

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    You are not alone. I have those problems as well. Of course it lead to the end of a relationship in my younger years. But try to find a random topic to speak about. Like Noblewine suggested. Ask her if anything new happened, or how was work. Or hey, tell here about your day. She may be amused.

    ... And people wonder why we don't talk much. ;P
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    Quote Originally Posted by TheOneHero View Post
    Listen to these fine young gentlemen.

    Once you get there: don't rush to finish a discussion, enjoy it while you can and expand on it. :3


    I'll try that then. Still open to more suggestions though.

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    Stop being so boring.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Toadthroat View Post
    Stop being so boring.
    Good suggestion... (I'm being sarcastic).She doesn't think I'm boring.

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    This the guy going out with a 14 year old, or did he finally grow up?

    Well anyway, if you don't know what to talk about, then quit thinking about talking about something. Just TALK. Say something that happened in your day, a memory, a party, music, SOMETHING. IT ISN'T THAT HARD.

    Or just enjoy being with her.

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    maybe watch a new movie with her, and talk about that. or start a hobby together. but yes women do enjoy the nice how was your day honey. that one's def a good one.

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