Relationships

[DanteDMC]

Its just a bad time for me. I'm too unmotivated to do anything about it now.

Let the words settle in with time and you'll move forward. Just try not to dive into the drugs and alcohol for a while, alright? That isn't helping you, it's just making the situation worse.

[Lance813]

My computer sucks...OH, I see what you did thar.

Yeah, drugs are bad. It happens.

[Tetsaru]

Spoiler!

Some tips for you:


1 - Talking so openly about your....shall we say...."sex life" *cough* certainly isn't going to get any girl's attention.

2 - While looks in a mate are an important factor for any person seeking a relationship (with varying degrees of shallow-ness and priority) constantly saying you want a "hot" girl is going to make most girls avoid you like the plague - women aren't objects and you'll never get a good girl with that mindset.

(Oh, and don't even fucking tell me you don't think of them that way, since the preceding line of yours about "LAWL I HAVE TO JERKOFF ALL THE TIME TO BE SATISFIED" right before "I WANT A HOT GIRL" isn't helping your case at all)

3 - While on the subject of wanting a "hot" girl, are you worth any hot girls looking at? Seriously now, people can't expect to get a hot girl / guy if they really let themselves go. I'm not saying you have to be God-like in beauty or anything, but do you at least get some exercise in on at least a semi-regular basis? Do you make healthy choices to keep your body clean? Are you severely overweight? Do you brush your teeth more than once a month? Why should any half-decent looking girl give you more than a passing glance if you aren't going to hold your own body to the same standards?

5 - Self pity and begging is a turn off to everyone but manipulative people. Quit being so whiny all the time dammit - you don't have to think you're the best guy ever or act like an egotistical jerk, but at least be a little more aware of what problems are worth ranting to people about and what's better kept to yourself - either because its TMI (see: point 1) or because it just makes you sound suicide-inducing-whiny (see: almost all your posts about Sega).


Learn to see girls past being sexual objects, shape up, MAN up, realize you probably aren't ready for a girl right now anyway, address your own problems and confront them, and you are on the right path.


Disclaimer: This post was written by a shy guy who has been single for about 5 years and decided to focus on bettering himself instead, he's begun bettering himself physically, mentally, and financially and does not beg girls for sex or treat them like crap, so before anyone screams "YOU DONT UNDERSTAND" or finds any inevitable truths in this post to be offensive, kindly STFU / GTFO while I laugh at you because you are obviously ignorant and aren't going to listen anyway.

1 - Don't worry - I don't tell everyone that. Usually just my close friends, or other people who probably don't give a shit.

2 - I know women aren't objects. I also said I wanted a nerdy girl... as in one that like video games and anime, etc. like I do. Of course I don't want her to be ugly. That just reinforces your 3rd point. I've always liked naturally busty women... it's just a fetish of mine (no, I don't go around telling girls that either). Whatever creams your twinkie. I look for good morals and qualities in everyone - don't think I don't. I may jerk off a lot, but I don't go around looking for some bimbo to bang me all the time.

3 - Look at the photos in my profile and you tell me. =P I'll admit I've put on some weight over the summer, but I'm sure I'll lose a lot of it once marching band season kicks back in.

4 - You need to learn how to count, lol. :3

5 - I "whine" because writing about is all I CAN do sometimes to get things off my chest. You want me to go around raping girls or fly over to Sega HQ and go Rambo on everyone?? Also, I DO occasionally have to take medication for depression (which in turn causes me to have an increased appetite and eat more, making me gain weight), so fuck off. Besides, I'm not forcing anyone to read my posts.

For the most part, you're telling me things I already know, so you're not really helping me. =/

[CupOfCoffee]

I'm not sure "busty" really counts as a fetish any more than "naked ladies" counts as a fetish. Other than that, carry on folks.

[Kylie]

I'm not sure "busty" really counts as a fetish any more than "naked ladies" counts as a fetish. Other than that, carry on folks.

Unless you mean the girls from Eiken.

[Vanzazikon]

rofl

[HUnewearl_Meira]

Anyway, unlike most people, I've actually decided not to get into a relationship. I don't feel like I'd be responsible enough for that. Plus, I'm not really in a good financial/emotional situation as of late. I really need to focus on school. I've really screwed up on it, I can't hurt someone else by not being able to spend with them.

People have this strange idea that a romantic relationship is something between a friendship and a business agreement. Business agreements usually involve a lot of money, so people think that a romantic relationship should cost a lot of money. If finances are a concern, then you're going out of your way to attempt to impress someone; spending money that you wouldn't normally spend. Tell me: if you have to put up this sort of facade to impress her, then have you actually found someone who is interested in you? It seems to me as though she's interested in the character that you are playing before her.

It's better if you can find someone that you're likely to interact with everyday, anyway. Someone who has a similar routine. By the time you've entered into a relationship with good footing, you'll find that the two of you are pooling your resources, to the mutual improvement of your lives. Spend the extra money on her if you are compelled to-- not because you believe it is something that needs to be done in a successful relationship.

O.o next i'm going to hear about a kid who hit puberty at the age of 4 i tells yah!

The youngest mother on record (Lina Medina) was 5 years old, when her child was born. She was only an infant when she began menstruating. The number of mothers on record aged 9 and 10 is disturbingly high.

[Leviathan]

I don't take relationships at this age to heart.

I much rather wait it out when people get their heads straight.

My standards are also high. ;|

[Retehi]

Suddenly, Debbie Downer looks like the happiest person on Earth now.

[Randomness]

The youngest mother on record (Lina Medina) was 5 years old, when her child was born. She was only an infant when she began menstruating.

Wow. That's all I can say, really.