Many people in the homosexual community piss me off. Fags. A guy can be gay, because he likes men. A guy can also be a fag, which is being gay but with the nifty addition of acting out and embracing every single stereotype of a homosexual male that there is.
The ironic part of this rant is that I am a openly gay male.
I, however, am not a fag.
If you could go back deep into the PSOW forum archives, you'd see that I've always had issues with my weight. I lost a lot of it back when I started college, and unfortunately when I transferred schools I gained it back. Which sucks for me. But, quite frankly, during and since school I've always been active.
Yeah, not necessairly exercise. But with constant classes and work, I was always on the run. And since I finished school, I've been working full-time (on my feet 8 hours a day) and have started exercising again just recently. I'm still a thick guy.
Now, here is what pisses me off with a lot of the gay male community. Many relationships are based off of looks, sex, and social politics. Not actually caring about the other person. It's all about benefitting yourself at the expense of the other individual, and seeing what you can get out of the relationship before moving onto the next person.
So, I'm a gay male who has a steady, stable job. I'm quite friendly and jovial with people. I always try to make people laugh, and just have a good time. I'm also quite honest - for instance, last time I went out to eat I noticed I was undercharged. I didn't want to screw the restaurant out of revenue and the tipped employee out of income. I consider myself a decent human being. But that isn't enough.
But I am not 120 pounds, anorexic, and sporting Abercrombie.
This rant was fueled because I was trying to chat with a guy. We've chatted before, not recently, but it was nothing extreme. Friendly conversations in the past. Nothing too serious or deep. Tried messaging him tonight, and all I get was "leave me alone and stop bothering me".
WTF. What did I do to deserve this? Burn down an orphanage? Perform ethnic cleansing? No, probably because I'm not a fag.
I can almost guarentee that if I had a ripped six pack and a tanline, people would be wanting to chat with me left and right. But no. My personality means absolutely diddly squat because I'm a 'bear', I'm a 'thick guy'. I'm not an anorexic twink who looks like I could be snapped in half during intercourse. I'm not a fag, and thus not even worthy of a conversation.
And I guess, ya know, perhaps I shouldn't want to talk with these individuals. But, how do you know if they're an asshole if you don't talk to them? Can't judge a book by their cover, which is an opinion I hold, but what is exacty the opposite of what they're doing to me.
(I did look sexy at one point but wasn't a douche about it).
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On the flip side of this argument, I will admit that I might contain some of these selfish characteristics. Like, you know, refusing to talk to someone who hasn't updated their profile picture or profile in 3-4 years (mine was updated yesterday, amazing self photo btw). Or, ignoring creepy old men who are in their 70's who send me pictures of their junk among graphic descriptions of what they'd like to do.
End rant.
BTW, here's the most recent pic of me.
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