From so many subjects that interest me, the subject love is probably in the top 3. I would really love to hear what you think about love/true love/marriage/the one/relationships in general.
For me, love is very important, and although it is said to be a chemical reaction I do think it goes way beyond that. And I guess I do somewhat believe in true love and the one (even if the relationship might not last with "the one" person, it is just that really special feeling you get towards that person that even if you look them in the eyes after years you get that butterflys in stomach feeling).
I have now almost been 5 years together with my fiance, and I can with a 100% honesty say I still love him like on day one. Of course, nobody can say if it will last forever, life changes and people change, and maybe our ways will seperate one day. But I do really hope that that won't happen and that when I am all old I can sit next to him in a wheelchair and talk about our fun times we had together.
To the subject of subject of marriage. I would like to marry, but nor for religious reasons, but so that I could call him my fiance and that we would be seen as husband and wife. Just to tighten our bond even more.
It is sad to see so many marriages fail, but I do think a lot of it has to do that many people marry for the wrong reasons or that once they are married they stop caring. They start to get lazy in the relationship. And marriage is still that, a relationship. Just because you are married shouldn't mean that your relationship is "safe" and that you need't work on it anymore. I think it is always very important to appreciate your partner, their good sides aswell as their bad sides. And of course know that you also have bad sides, and always will, but both of you can always work on them.
Anyway, I just think, that through marriage many people think that their partner is now their proberty or something like that. Which is why they just start to treat eachother different.
Like said, for me marriage is just a stronger bond for ones relationship, but in no way something that makes your relationship safe.
Enough from me for now.
Let me hear your thoughts!
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