Originally Posted by
AC9breaker
This is a problem that started with parenting and can only be solved with parenting. From what I infer it seems like your parents are constantly working extreme hours, similar to what my parents where doing and how I grew up. As a result, both my oldest brothers and sister got into a lot of trouble.
I feel like your father needs to assert himself in the situation, and the whole family has to come to understand in unison that her actions are unacceptable, and if she doesn't get the message and conform then you've gotta show some tough love and kick her out. Even if she is 16. She's at the age now where her habits are already too deeply ingrained and a quality ass whooping isn't gonna have the same effect like it would on a child. It's all about tough love, now. One way or another she's gonna bring trouble to the family, and you guys have to seriously intervene to work together and cooperate to change her. She seems to have that self entitlement attitude thats common with the current generation though, so it'll be hard to get her to go against the grain.
There's a saying I remember hearing that "it takes a village to raise one child." I feel like thats another part of the problem too, her peers and who she associates and what she does when unsupervised. Even though she's still a child, shes at the cross road in life when shes about to be an adult. You should feel no sympathy for what you do because you are doing the right thing to help her be a better person. The sad thing is, I feel like she won't ever change until it's too late and even then may still be oblivious to what went wrong. She has to learn the consequences of her actions and choices and learn to man up to her mistakes.
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