yet again...

[zwandude15]

...another episode of love.

So my girlfriend's about a year younger then me. I'm 16, she's 14.

I think this is moreso a problem with me...

Among many people, I use the infamous, Myspace.

Upon looking at a reply her friend had to one of her "blogs", I felt a need to comment her.

I'm looking at her friend's page, and I just look at her friends, and I notice, they're just freshman.

Did you see it?! That line! "they're just freshman."

They're just...so...immature. I can't...take it.

They have this little world/bubble they live in. I can't seem to grasp their...humanity.

Then I think, maybe they can't grasp mine.

I hate having to tell my little cousins to "Calm down" or "Be quiet," let alone kids a bit younger than myself.

I've accepted the idea that maybe my girlfriend's different than the other kids...or so i think...

I want to know that she's at this level that I'm at. But I can't be sure...or maybe I'm just being an ass and I'm being too needy....I dont know...

It's just sometimes shes a little too loud, or too crazy, or too....immature...

Maybe it's just a tick i need to get over. But, I'd like to know that she can talk to me at a mature level. Just sometimes....

Am I reacting normally to this?

For every action, there's a reaction. Maybe I should've expected it...



<font size=-1>[ This Message was edited by: zwandude15 on 2006-05-02 17:59 ]</font>

[ABDUR101]

All the same, I'm sure you do things which annoy people that are just afew years older than yourself, and they annoy people afew years older than them, and so on and so on.

You and your girlfriend are in the same ballpark, so give it some time and she'll either mature up abit, or not. She'll be who she's going to be, just like you are, who you are.

[REJ-]

ABDUR101 got it straight on, you should just let her be who she is.

[zwandude15]

Hence my thinking it might have just been me. =[

and as Abdur said, to those of whom read this, topics like this from me might just seem annoying to those of you.

[Eros17]

Dude... lighten up.

[Charmander02]

Yep freshman, that's what they do.

If you dont like them then dont hang around them and visit their Myspace etc.





<font size=-1>[ This Message was edited by: Charmander02 on 2006-05-02 16:32 ]</font>

[zwandude15]

It's funny because I just deleted my myspace. =D
I'm proud of myself.

But I think my point may have turned a bit...

The "freshman" i spoke of, yea, they may seem immature at times, but when I compare them to the people in the Sophomore class, they're like angels.

They never do anything wrong. There are more and more people doing their homework in their class, and our class just getting less and less smart. Perhaps if they were smart enough to realize they could have a future worth looking forward to, I'd see everyone more equally...

I appreciate how Abdur put it, because, I guess I forgot how the relationship was when it started. I didn't have a care in the world, much less, worry about how she was acting.

If anyone can really say they love someone else in the world, then you love them for who they are, not who you 'want them to be.' I seemed to have lost sight of that. I can only hope she can forgive me for the person I've become.

as a note: Hello PSOworld, I'll be your waiter from now on. Myspace was hell... i know now why they have "myspace ruined my life" t-shirts...