summertime!...?

[HAYABUSA-FMW-]

Soon enough you'll be back in school happy as can be.

I'm sure you kids are adept at finding other ways to contact eachother with the IM, e-mail, text message, mutual friends passing messages along, answer services on phones, etc.

If her dad dictates what she can and cannot do, there's nothing you can do about that. Don't fight it.

Wait it out until October, there's no real sure fire solution to win the dad over, and its sort of a question of her being mature enough to have a relationship at all or if what dad says goes, pssh see ya wouldn't wanna be ya!

If you two change your feelings over the Summer, which may eventually happen anyway, puppy love High School flings aren't in the greatest percentile of permanent long term relationships, don't fight that either.

You'll surely cheat yourself out on life if you mull over what eventually you're going to forget anyway. You might look back on this in a few years and wonder how silly your hormones made you think and act.

Enjoy the ride.

[Daikarin]

To anyone else who is smart enough to feel emo about summer:

[merrycherry9]

On 2006-06-21 09:52, zwandude15 wrote:

On 2006-06-21 03:50, darthsaber9x9 wrote:
Surely it's her dad that's making things hard? And why can't she go to your house?

Well, her dad does contribute largely to things. If the man gave me half a chance, I'm sure I could change his outlook on the relationship in general. But he strongly refuses to hear anything I have to say. I can't even ask my girlfriend to say "hi" to him for me, because she fears he might start yelling.

And she can't come to my house because her mom is uncomfortable with it. Not to mention she'd consult her husband first, and I kinda just mentioned why he's a problem.

I don't know why this is so hard. During Spring Break though, this happened. I'm assuming that we start having a hard time when we spend so much time away from each other. All the more reason to meet her dad, who of course, doesn't want to meet me.

There's no way into the system!

hmm... it sounds to me like something is wrong with the dad (obviously lol). Why does he have such a big say in everything...does he abuse people? Meanwhile try to think positive and have as much fun as possible. Even if there is nobody to go to the beach with you, you could still walk by and find tons of girls/guys who you could hang out with

[zwandude15]

Haya, I totally understand where you're coming from, with the fact that logically, high school flings dont work, but I can't help but feel bad when thinking if that's the answer right there, to just break up, or break up eventually.

And leave it to Daikarin to bash me on this one. Even though I'm not exactly for the emo thing...

Merry, although he's not an abusive parent, he's quite mean to me... I mean, I shouldn't but, I take it personally. Because I know I'm a good kid. =

I guess things are getting a little better...but not too much...

[HAYABUSA-FMW-]

You can waste your summer sulking or go have fun.

There's no right choice.

There's no end all solution.

There's no noble thing to do.

Or any guarantee giving your all to the girl gets you anywhere in the end anyway.

RAGING HORMONES.