On 2006-12-28 07:02, shadrad wrote:
Perhaps the more appropriate question to ask is 'why does it matter' if someone who is playing is a girl or boy? If they suck at playing, they suck. Don't go easy on them if they're a bad party member. If they're a good player, let 'em know, or play with them more often.
Believe it or not, girls aren't that fragile. Maybe I don't speak for the rest of my gender, but generally my experience is that girls would prefer to be treated without consideration for their RL gender. Certainly I prefer it that way. It simply isn't a factor-- and for players where it /is/ a factor (who want people to 'go easy' or 'be nice to them' because they're girls), they can go off and find something more rewarding to do with their overly sensitive selves than princess around on the internet.
At the same time, admittedly, I get no small amount of amusement to watch my friends who are IRL guys on female characters get hit on repeatedly. I tend to be able to avoid this by playing a small child character with an enormous battle axe. Also, I invested in /real/ pants.
For some reason, this topic keeps popping up at my usual haunts in the last few days. I've been online since Prodigy and Compuserve had stuff to do, and though I avoided MMOs until I found one that I could cater to my tight schedule, it's not like I don't know tons of girls who play games online. Most just prefer not to disclose their gender for these very reasons-- not just 'getting hit on' or, sadly, sexual harassment, but that they don't want it to /matter/ if they've got boobs or not when they're kicking back to level or farm.
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