Well as it turns out, I'm really liking this Cosmic theme! Might stick with it.

On a side note, something rather minor, but I was curious if it was possible (and if I'm not just a n00b for not knowing where to fix that) to assign what I want to see when I click on my profile as it loads for myself or all?

Right now it's default to My Activity, but I wonder if I could set it to how it would appear on the previous site straight to Visitor Messages.